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Posted by your#1fan on December 11, 2007, at 1:16:37
Im sorry, i am usally happy, and ok. But right now im so angry with a pastor at a church. I cannot believe this happened! very angry. To anyone who reads this, i never usally get mad, but this kinda of treatment and then act like nothing happened, and walk away. Im Boiling.....
Someone at at church, that was a leader called me a drug addicted person in frount of many people. He bossed me around and humilated me in frount of alot of people! and then said got it? and then would not speak to me again. In a way i though he was trying to give me advice, but he went way to far in humilation. Im not going to judge him. Now i told him that i take prescription antidepressants, which now that is a no no. Do not tell anyone that you take medications. We at a self help group. He dilberlity did this to make himself look better.
I have my own troubles but i dont want to express them. But at church a pastor really condemmed me horribly and then went and laughed with others. Can you believe someone with that kinda of authority use against me, when i came in from a stressed day, and use me as punching bag. If i was my old myself, i would be on his tail, would have everyone who overheard it write down what he said and deliver it to the head pastor, thats putting it mild. But that sure makes my blood boil! fiercly! and he left and acted like nothing happened and then again i confrounted him, he doesnt understand the stress i went under today! listen im nice, but this guy has an ego trip going.
I am disappointed as a christain that someone with authority and especially under a pastoral care would do this. I am definently would file a complaint?
listen im just irrtaited, if this continues. What do i do? leave the church, or file complaint.
Sick of Judgemental christains. But you know, the world is even more twisted.
What do i do? i want to pray. Im sure god will tell me to be humble and do nothing. Help....
Posted by your#1fan on December 11, 2007, at 11:07:40
In reply to Leader in church humiliates me in public..., posted by your#1fan on December 11, 2007, at 1:16:37
Im not as mad as i was last night. I think he misunderstook me, but doing this infrount of people... i just dont get.Im better, i have forgiven him. So no hard feelings.
please actually dont respond, because i think i have made my mind up. Im have forgivness, and im not going to let this get to my head.By the way....exams are over with. YAY!
im alot better this morning, i dont feel angry with him at all.
Alright well next time, im going to my thepist...
Maybe pastors just dont understnad.
Posted by Kath on December 11, 2007, at 20:26:10
In reply to Re:..: ), posted by your#1fan on December 11, 2007, at 11:07:40
Posted by your#1fan on December 11, 2007, at 20:31:21
In reply to #1 - I've sent you a babblemail about this. (nm), posted by Kath on December 11, 2007, at 20:26:10
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