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Posted by your#1fan on October 22, 2007, at 22:46:46
I swear i hate contervery,
And know she wrapped up all in this, making fun, texting to other people im gay.Should sent her a note and told her to stop. If it continues she is going to get humilated very bad in class.
How should call her cards on her. Mainly people who talk about others are tragic, and want to start drama. And for her....this is pretty pethitic. She has told various people going around, i swear ughh god im mad.
But please be civil because im going to handle it civily.
Posted by Justherself54 on October 23, 2007, at 11:01:58
In reply to This girl is talking about me in class and rumors., posted by your#1fan on October 22, 2007, at 22:46:46
Completely ignore her..the more you feed into her immature activities, the more she will continue to bait you..conduct yourself in a mature manner and go about your business..don't show her that it's upsetting you..cause she'll just keep at it..once she sees she can't get any reaction from you (other than amusement at her immaturity)..she'll soon lay off..keep cool..
Posted by TexasChic on October 23, 2007, at 21:23:17
In reply to Re: This girl is talking about me in class and rumors., posted by Justherself54 on October 23, 2007, at 11:01:58
I agree completely. If you remember, I've dealt with being the object of ridicule before, and I understand its miserable. But if I could give you any advice based on my experiences, its that the less you feed into her crap, the better. In other words, don't say ANYTHING! It seems like the worst thing to do, but I swear it will work better than anything you could say. She will loose interest if she can't provoke you. If you say anything it will only encourage her. Just concentrate on the fact that this is one brief aspect of your life, and won't last forever. Concentrate on your life outside of this class/school. I'm behind you and believe you can do this. People like this girl are just so insecure they have to make fun of others to make themselves feel better. Its pretty pathetic when you think about it.
-T
Posted by Racer on October 24, 2007, at 20:14:21
In reply to Re: This girl is talking about me in class and rum, posted by TexasChic on October 23, 2007, at 21:23:17
The only thing I wanted to add, is that concentrating on the class work itself would help a lot in ignoring this girl.
It's hard, and I know it used to feel to me as though I couldn't survive sometimes. Then again, it was more often teachers who picked on me, which really does make it worse. Concentrating and working on the class related stuff did two things for me: I could ignore the social stuff better, and I got better grades...
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