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Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 9, 2007, at 20:22:41
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » cactus, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 9, 2007, at 19:45:56
Please! She's being exploited.
Posted by Phillipa on August 9, 2007, at 20:29:09
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » cactus, posted by Larry Hoover on August 9, 2007, at 18:08:10
Get mad at me if you like I thought it was funny as he must be wierder than I thought. And now I will no longer trust anything Jerrod says on meds. It's his wife I think and both are mentally ill from what others have told me. Have no idea what their illness is. Love Phillipa
Posted by Phillipa on August 9, 2007, at 20:35:39
In reply to Any one who wants to support the woman involved.., posted by Gabbi-2 on August 9, 2007, at 20:22:41
Sorry I retract the above I need to go back and see if something was added. I admit I didn't read all the words . I messed up. Love Phillipa
Posted by Phillipa on August 9, 2007, at 21:52:46
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all, posted by cactus on August 9, 2007, at 17:53:15
But why is she smiling and looking at the camera? Reminds me of the coppertone baby. Love Phillipa
Posted by Sigismund on August 9, 2007, at 22:58:00
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » cactus, posted by Larry Hoover on August 9, 2007, at 18:08:10
Well, I'm sorry too.
First I'm in favour of swansex, and then I wish I liked being spanked.
I just don't know what to do with myself.
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 10, 2007, at 0:15:17
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all, posted by Phillipa on August 9, 2007, at 21:52:46
The picture was posted without her permission.
That's the exploitation.
Posted by cactus on August 10, 2007, at 5:08:29
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » Phillipa, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 10, 2007, at 0:15:17
> The picture was posted without her permission.
> That's the exploitation.Gabbi I see your point but anyone posing for pics like this in the digital camera era knows all too well just how wrong it can go.
Posted by tofuemmy on August 10, 2007, at 6:22:08
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » Gabbi-2, posted by cactus on August 10, 2007, at 5:08:29
> Gabbi I see your point but anyone posing for pics like this in the digital camera era knows all too well just how wrong it can go.Yeah, and if I wear a short skirt, it's my fault that I am raped. I should have known better!!
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 10, 2007, at 9:35:39
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » cactus, posted by tofuemmy on August 10, 2007, at 6:22:08
Sorry you got knifed but in that part of town you know how things can go..
Well, you shouldn't have been carrying your purse with you
You shouldn't have had your first name printed in the phone book
You shouldn't have been in that bar alone
I honestly can't believe people still say these things.
Posted by NikkiT2 on August 11, 2007, at 4:08:51
In reply to Violence *Trigger*.. » tofuemmy, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 10, 2007, at 9:35:39
I do beg to differ..
~Every~ day photos are published in the press of people without their express permission..
A nasty break up is not exploitation.. Its just that. A nasty break up where both sides seem to be as bad as each other.
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 11, 2007, at 15:14:20
In reply to Re: Violence *Trigger*.. » Gabbi-2, posted by NikkiT2 on August 11, 2007, at 4:08:51
No matter what, in *any* situation do I believe there is an excuse for posting sexually intimate pictures of someone male *or* female in order to humiliate them. The only time I can possibly see the temptation is when someone is in a position where they make judgements against people for the same thing- Jimmy Swaggart for example
Aside from my personal disgust at such a betrayal of trust it is illegal.
Just because it may happen to people every day does not mean it's not exploitation, terrible things happen to people every day they are still hurtfulIt's also been stated that the pictures have been altered, I realize that's one persons word against the other, however looking at the top picture and the bottom one I can see where there may validity in that statement.
In my mind, a nasty breakup does not make this kind of thing any less heinous Even if she did everything she was accused of, and there are way too many holes in his story,She didn't deserve this.
I don't know her. I saw the link, I read what he said and thought "His story doesn't even make sense"
That's when I became outraged, I had no feelings one way or the other beforehand.
And I'm sick to death of the "just call her a sl*t" retribution that's still - when the sexual behaviour of the woman involved has nothing to do with the original disagreement.
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 11, 2007, at 15:16:09
In reply to Re: Violence *Trigger*.. » NikkiT2, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 11, 2007, at 15:14:20
It's good to see your name around again : )
Yes, REALLY!
Posted by cactus on August 11, 2007, at 23:09:33
In reply to Re: Violence *Trigger*.. » Gabbi-2, posted by NikkiT2 on August 11, 2007, at 4:08:51
> I do beg to differ..
>
> ~Every~ day photos are published in the press of people without their express permission..
>
> A nasty break up is not exploitation.. Its just that. A nasty break up where both sides seem to be as bad as each other.Thankyou nikki, that is what I was trying to convey, people do horrible things during break ups. I don't agree with what happened but these things do happen everyday unfortunately. I feel like I have been taken out of context and completly miss understood. And I do not condone any form of explotation. Moral of the story, don't pose for the CAMERA in the first place, chances are photographic revenge will be posted online, it's just very easy and humilitating justice in the eyes of perpertraitor.
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 12, 2007, at 0:58:03
In reply to Re: break up vengence » NikkiT2, posted by cactus on August 11, 2007, at 23:09:33
She has autism, she left the relationship because she claimed he raped her, that's when he posted the pictures and the derogatory story.
Because she was part of the site, she got paid, now she's going without her medication, and there is question as to whether or not she did pose for those pictures.If she had publically called attention to the situation first, with her claim, I could say it's mudslinging, she didn't however.
And as far as "don't pose for the pictures"
Going out on a date is potentially dangerous,
does that mean if something bad happens, you shouldn't go out on a date in the first place?
Posted by NikkiT2 on August 12, 2007, at 10:07:28
In reply to P.S Nikki » Gabbi-2, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 11, 2007, at 15:16:09
I think I just got.. to that point where babble was making me angier thn before I arrived. So, I've pulled back. I still pop by occasoinally though :)
Posted by NikkiT2 on August 12, 2007, at 10:12:52
In reply to Re: break up vengence » NikkiT2, posted by cactus on August 11, 2007, at 23:09:33
Naughty photos should only ever be taken on your own camera, and then deleted!! Do not save for later titilation. never save anything you would not be happy with your mother reading or seeing is my rue of thumb! A friend of a friend got VERY badly burned on the back on her blog last year.. a very sexually open blog, and she was "outted" by a national newspaper. Huge lesson learned!
The fact that she is classed as low functioning autistc ~does~ concern me hugely as to whether she was able to offer consent for a sexual relationship full stop..
problem is.. when you ~really~ want to hurt someone, you will stoop to any level, and all rationality goes out of the window..
N x
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 12, 2007, at 22:54:42
In reply to Re: P.S Nikki » Gabbi-2, posted by NikkiT2 on August 12, 2007, at 10:07:28
yeah it's kind of like that pesky ex everyone has.
"Maybe it wasn't so bad, we had some good times"
"Oh yeah, *that's* why I broke up with him"
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 13, 2007, at 2:25:06
In reply to Re: break up vengence » NikkiT2, posted by cactus on August 11, 2007, at 23:09:33
Moral of the story, don't pose for the CAMERA in the first place, chances are photographic revenge will be posted online,Judging from personal experience, and that of a girlfriend, the assumption that pictures like that are "posed" for, is frequently false.
You don't know when a camera is going to show up.
Your lover leaves 'to get a glass of water'
You're laying on the bed semi asleep
"Hey honey, look what I found!"
You turn your head to look, smile, "Click"There you are "posing" looking at the camera, and even smiling.
And in this "digital age" it doesn't take much to create a sophisticated looking fake.
I'm not saying there aren't women who pose happily for these photos, but when someone claims they didn't, they may have more reasons to do so than embarrassment.
Posted by Phillipa on August 13, 2007, at 19:50:25
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » Phillipa, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 10, 2007, at 0:15:17
Good point glad I'm not single and the site is down . So obviously something is going on. Shame on him. Phillipa
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 13, 2007, at 20:40:25
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » Gabbi-2, posted by Phillipa on August 13, 2007, at 19:50:25
> Good point glad I'm not single and the site is down .
Well, I wasn't bothered, it's coals to Newcastle for me, not for my girlfriend though. It's easily done
>So obviously something is going on. Shame on him. PhillipaHe's just having server problems.
Posted by Phillipa on August 13, 2007, at 21:36:14
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » Phillipa, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 13, 2007, at 20:40:25
I thought the site was off due to the legal stuff going on? Love Phillipa
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 14, 2007, at 0:13:00
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » Gabbi-2, posted by Phillipa on August 13, 2007, at 21:36:14
Don't know. If it is, I'm not aware of it.
I haven't looked into that far though
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 14, 2007, at 0:21:10
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to all » Gabbi-2, posted by Phillipa on August 13, 2007, at 21:36:14
I don't know that there is any "legal stuff" going on??
Was that just an assumption?
Posted by Phillipa on August 14, 2007, at 19:48:18
In reply to No, Just server/Domain ISP problems. » Phillipa, posted by Gabbi-2 on August 14, 2007, at 0:21:10
Didn't someone mention maybe I read it wrong Thought someone said in a thread there was on well wrong again I guess.Phillipa
Posted by Gabbi-2 on August 14, 2007, at 20:10:49
In reply to Re: No, Just server/Domain ISP problems. » Gabbi-2, posted by Phillipa on August 14, 2007, at 19:48:18
Actually, yeah looking back someone did mention that there were legal issues
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