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Posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 15:29:31
There is someone I know who I am almost certain is lying.....I care about this person though and I do not think they are being dishonest maliciously, nor do I think dishonesty is a major trait in their character.... unlike some people I have known. I do not know whether to confront them or not. Any thoughts?
:o(
butterfly
Posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 16:07:07
In reply to Do you tell a friend if you think they are lying?, posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 15:29:31
And another question.... some of you know I ask lots of those. I guess you either like them and the butterfly "fuzzies"... or.... not. And I am learning not to care! If you don't appreciate or respect me then it's your loss. I am thinking of all the times I did not stand up to bullies as a child so please forgive any anger that is apparent.
How do you deal with it if a "friend" accuses you of lying when you are not.
:o( :o(
butterfly
Posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 16:57:05
In reply to Re: Do you tell a friend if you think they are lying?, posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 16:07:07
whatever. I have decided this is a cruel place and it was probably a mistake to post.
And I do hurt. And I do bleed.
Posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 17:05:13
In reply to Re: Do you tell a friend if you think they are lying?, posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 16:57:05
there are some cruel SCARY people here. and I am NOT one of them.
waiting to be blocked
How very very sad to be so freakin angry. NOT ME.... I could say more but I am DONE with this b*llshit .... to hell with it and to everything XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Posted by Dinah on September 10, 2006, at 18:35:35
In reply to Re: rephrase - waiting for block, posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 17:05:13
> there are some cruel SCARY people here. and I am NOT one of them.
I understand you're upset, but please don't jump to conclusions about others, or post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
You've never been warned to be civil before to my knowledge, so you're not up for a block. But you probably would benefit from reading the FAQ if you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself.
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
As I've explained before, if you receive a post or a babblemail that you do not consider civil, please forward the babblemail or send the URL of the post to Dr. Bob or the deputies. Dr. Bob's email address is at the bottom of each page, and ways to contact the deputies are in the FAQ. You can always babblemail us about the problem too.
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Dr. Bob is always free to override deputy decisions. His email is on the bottom of each page. Please feel free to email him if you believe this decision was made in error.
Dinah, acting as deputy for Dr. Bob
Posted by TexasChic on September 10, 2006, at 20:05:25
In reply to Re: Do you tell a friend if you think they are lying?, posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 16:57:05
Posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 20:31:59
In reply to Damn! What the hell happened Rainy? (nm) » rainbutterfly, posted by TexasChic on September 10, 2006, at 20:05:25
Thanks dinah and texas...
hard to reply in an "honest" and civil way, tex, so I won't!! Thankfully hiding in my cocoon.
Thanks Dinah for not blocking me
Posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 20:35:36
In reply to Re: Damn! What the hell happened Rainy?, posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 20:31:59
Ugh.
Just Ugh.
Posted by Phillipa on September 10, 2006, at 21:59:52
In reply to Re: Damn! What the hell happened Rainy?, posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 20:35:36
Well we may not know each other but my babblemail is on. Maybe I could act as your temporary T. Love Phillipa
Posted by rainbutterfly on September 10, 2006, at 22:57:51
In reply to Re: Damn! What the hell happened Rainy? » rainbutterfly, posted by Phillipa on September 10, 2006, at 21:59:52
That is very sweet of you Phillipa. It would be cool to babblemail with you occasionally..... or maybe even more frequently if you find out that I am not a terrible scary person (grrr)....That last bit is probably my paranoia talking or an old tape.... whatever.
For now though, I am hiding.
Thank you, I appreciate your kindness,
butterfly
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