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Posted by Chrispy_85 on October 21, 2005, at 8:10:56
Thanks to all the guys and gals who replied to me on that problem i have. just so you all know, i have discussed it with her and she tells me it's ok with her and she says she wants me to get on with my life too...but i just know that she's telling me that because she realizes that me moving out is the right thing to do now but i know just in the way she tells me these things, that she is hurting a lot on the inside. i guess the main issue with me about it is just the constant feeling of guilt about it. and i've just been having a lot of panic attacks recently and it just isn't making the situation any better. and now, i believe one of my worst fears is coming to life. instead of just having the panic attacks for now particular reason like before, i think the fear of having them is causing them to happen more often. i am very scared about them right now.
Posted by wildcard on October 21, 2005, at 15:54:32
In reply to Thanks, feeling a bit better now., posted by Chrispy_85 on October 21, 2005, at 8:10:56
I am glad you were able to discuss things with your mom and I understand your feeling *guilty* but even your mom knows you need to start a life of your own. That doesn't mean that you can't stay near to make sure she is doing alright. I know you mentioned money's tight but have you contacted your local mental health center and see if she qualifies for someone to come to her for therapy, help w/ groceries, medicines if needed, etc.? There are a lot of places that are willing to help (churches), you just have to look. Then you may feel less guilt about leaving but you deserve your own life also and you have obviously been wonderful to your mom. (((hugs)))
Feel free to babblemail me ANYTIME..I have been there~abbey ; )
Posted by chrispy_85 on October 23, 2005, at 1:58:46
In reply to Re: Thanks, feeling a bit better now., posted by wildcard on October 21, 2005, at 15:54:32
> I am glad you were able to discuss things with your mom and I understand your feeling *guilty* but even your mom knows you need to start a life of your own. That doesn't mean that you can't stay near to make sure she is doing alright. I know you mentioned money's tight but have you contacted your local mental health center and see if she qualifies for someone to come to her for therapy, help w/ groceries, medicines if needed, etc.? There are a lot of places that are willing to help (churches), you just have to look. Then you may feel less guilt about leaving but you deserve your own life also and you have obviously been wonderful to your mom. (((hugs)))
> Feel free to babblemail me ANYTIME..I have been there~abbey ; )thanks a lot abbey...you have been very good to me and i can't tell you how much i appreciate it. i am feeling very bad about myself right now for reasons unknown, but i've taken some pills and drank a lot and i don't know if i will wake in the morning. if i don't though, i just want to say, i really appreciate your kindness towards me. you seem like a wonderful person. you are very kind abbey,
thank you,
-chris
Posted by wildcard on October 23, 2005, at 8:05:56
In reply to Re: Thanks, feeling a bit better now., posted by chrispy_85 on October 23, 2005, at 1:58:46
Chris~I just awoke and saw your post. Please let me know YOU ARE ok..Please let me know ASAP!!
your friend~
abbey
Posted by rainbowbrite on October 23, 2005, at 8:45:39
In reply to Thanks, feeling a bit better now., posted by Chrispy_85 on October 21, 2005, at 8:10:56
Chris Im sure your mom does want you to be happy. I think you should listen to what she says. Trust your instincts to move out.
Posted by rainbowbrite on October 23, 2005, at 8:47:46
In reply to Re: Thanks, feeling a bit better now., posted by chrispy_85 on October 23, 2005, at 1:58:46
I have been doing really quicks checks on the boards lately, I wish I hadnt missed this post yesterday. Please please post Asap. Im worried about you!
Posted by wildcard on October 23, 2005, at 9:02:57
In reply to Re: Thanks, feeling a bit better now. » Chrispy_85, posted by rainbowbrite on October 23, 2005, at 8:45:39
This was last night right after I got off the puter d*mm*t! I am worried...
Posted by rainbowbrite on October 23, 2005, at 9:15:20
In reply to Rain.. » rainbowbrite, posted by wildcard on October 23, 2005, at 9:02:57
hopefully Chris is ok.
(((Chris)))
Posted by wildcard on October 23, 2005, at 9:15:36
In reply to Rain.. » rainbowbrite, posted by wildcard on October 23, 2005, at 9:02:57
Please answer. My mom did the same thing and I am very worried about you.
Posted by Chrispy_85 on October 24, 2005, at 8:15:34
In reply to CHRIS!!!!! PLEASE ANSWER » chrispy_85, posted by wildcard on October 23, 2005, at 8:05:56
> Chris~I just awoke and saw your post. Please let me know YOU ARE ok..Please let me know ASAP!!
> your friend~
> abbey
hey thanks abbey for caring so much.
i'm ok, i just don't know what happened to me that night. i was really messed up and wrote a scuicide note and everything. i took a lot of drinks and a lot of pills and i was just prepared to die. it just kept running through my mind that i'm not supposed to be here and i don't want to burden those around me. but thank you and i'm sorry to have scared you. i'm just having a hard time coping with the attacks.thanks abbey
Posted by Chrispy_85 on October 24, 2005, at 8:18:31
In reply to Chris Please Post! » chrispy_85, posted by rainbowbrite on October 23, 2005, at 8:47:46
> I have been doing really quicks checks on the boards lately, I wish I hadnt missed this post yesterday. Please please post Asap. Im worried about you!
i'm alright somewhat now, i just sometimes feel i can't do it anymore, and when that goes through my head i just feel it would be so much easier to just end it than to deal with it anymore. but thank you for caring. it makes me feel a bit better just to know that people care
Posted by wildcard on October 24, 2005, at 11:27:39
In reply to Re: CHRIS!!!!! PLEASE ANSWER, posted by Chrispy_85 on October 24, 2005, at 8:15:34
Posted by rainbowbrite on October 25, 2005, at 0:09:27
In reply to So glad your okay ; ) (nm) » Chrispy_85, posted by wildcard on October 24, 2005, at 11:27:39
Posted by Chrispy_85 on October 25, 2005, at 7:56:32
In reply to me too (nm), posted by rainbowbrite on October 25, 2005, at 0:09:27
Thanks rainbowbrite,
It's very kind of you to care. i do appreciate it. i guess the bad times come and go just like the good ones. I think i'll get through it all, it'll just take time. thanks again,-chris
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