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Posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 12:51:44
Okay, I'm going to try to get my mind off the hurricane by talking about some trivial stuff. Last night I went out with my new group of friends at work. This includes 'cute boy' (I've spoke of him before). I had so much fun! I got drunk, which I would rather not have done, but still, a good night.
Its so weird how they just accepted me into their group. Its like they were just waiting for me to let them know I was ready to hang out.
It was an enlightening evening. I found out the guy and girl I thought was a couple, isn't. And the guy everyone thinks is gay is definitely not! I tried to get close to 'cute boy', but I still get the confusing vibe that he's either not interested, or just extremely shy. I'm going to concentrate on just becoming friends for now. Its just that when I see him I just want to hug and kiss him! He's just so cute!
Its nice to have potential friends again. I hope it works out well. I'm a little concerned that the two guys seem to maybe, possibly, be interested in me. I don't know. One of them I'm actually very attracted to in a non-physical way, if that makes sense. He's the one I thought was involved with the girl. But he has some baggage. I think he's married but separated. Also, he may not actually be interested, he has a very outgoing personality, so I could be wrong there. The other guy (who everyone at work thinks is gay) is cool, but I'm not interested in him that way. Unfortunately, he's the one who really seems interested. Why does it always work out like that?
Well, I guess that's it. We'll see how it all plays out!
Posted by sunny10 on September 23, 2005, at 13:16:17
In reply to Trivial non-hurricane related stuff, posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 12:51:44
I know I've been surprised in the past by good chemistry when at first there was none. (Actually, there was none until the first kiss- then WHAM! fireworks... and then that lingering chemistry every time he was near.
aaaah, happy memories...the first anything is a pretty happy memory!
Posted by rainbowbrite on September 23, 2005, at 14:30:07
In reply to Trivial non-hurricane related stuff, posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 12:51:44
oh I may have missed a thread but thats so esciting that you are talking to cute guy more! He may be shy and its a good plan to just try and be friends. A lot of relationships start out as just friends. is there anyone at work you feel comfortable helping you out with him? Like feeling the situation out for you?
3 guys! So you have you pick lol. Try and get more friendly with all of them. It will help you feel more confident even if nothing happens. I'd say its hard to find people who have no baggage. Glad you have a fun time!
Keep us updated
Posted by Angela2 on September 23, 2005, at 16:48:09
In reply to Trivial non-hurricane related stuff, posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 12:51:44
I'm glad you had fun:)
Posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 16:56:00
In reply to Re: Trivial non-hurricane related stuff » TexasChic, posted by rainbowbrite on September 23, 2005, at 14:30:07
Thanks yall. I have thought of getting someone at work to feel out the situation, but I haven't found anyone I trust yet. I may open up to one of my new friends though. We'll see how things progress.
I just remembered, while being drunk last night, I hugged cute boy and said I loved him. He already knows I get affectionate when I'm drunk though, I've hugged him before in that condition. As for what I said, I think he'll chalk it up to me being drunk. That's the way he acted when I said it. But still - embarrassing!
Posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 17:02:57
In reply to Re: Trivial non-hurricane related stuff, posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 16:56:00
I forgot to say this is all significant because I've been really introverted for the past year, not socializing at all. This was my first real attempt at it.
Posted by wildcard on September 23, 2005, at 17:21:31
In reply to Re: Trivial non-hurricane related stuff, posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 17:02:57
Well i'm 27 and still wonder if i'll meet someone i'm even interested in that one day i will love in that unexplainable way....anyone understand..lol *COMPLICATED* ; ) just rambling
there is a very sweet one close to my heart but so far away *big sigh*
Posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 18:17:44
In reply to Re: Trivial non-hurricane related stuff » TexasChic, posted by wildcard on September 23, 2005, at 17:21:31
> Well i'm 27 and still wonder if i'll meet someone i'm even interested in that one day i will love in that unexplainable way....anyone understand..lol *COMPLICATED* ; ) just rambling
I totally understand, believe me.
Posted by TexasChic on September 28, 2005, at 18:51:23
In reply to Re: Trivial non-hurricane related stuff, posted by TexasChic on September 23, 2005, at 18:17:44
Monday, on break at work, I casually brought up the subject of 'saying something stupid when you're drunk'. So I told how I had told 'cute boy' I 'loved him', kinda making a joke out of the whole thing (he was there too). But I made a point of saying he just put up with me because he's so nice, and blah blah blah. So now, ever since then, he's been making a visible effort to come talk to me. This morning, I couldn't even come up with idle chit chat because I was still so sleepy, and he still stuck around. It was actually kind of weird.
Then, today ended up being the day I changed desks so that I'm sitting next to him (I didn't think it would happen for a couple of weeks). I felt kind of guilty for leaving the two dudes who sat next to me, even though it was getting totally co-dependent. I guess it was a co-dependent guilt. I have to keep reminding myself that deserve to be happy, and its not my fault if someone else is unhappy. Sigh. Anyway, I was so shocked at moving today that I ended up with my headphones on and not talking to anyone. But between you and me, whohoo!
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