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Posted by alesta on May 10, 2005, at 13:58:02
breaking up sucks y'all. and my self-esteem sucks. truly.:(
i feel tempted to do something a bit drastic/wild..like put on my blue dress and blue pumps and go to a bar and make out with some random guys..i'm not a slut, i just really miss having a guy..but i don't want a relationship. i know it just takes time, but the bar idea might be a nice adjunct...does that sound like a bad idea?? i am open to any suggestions..i just feel so wretched...
and i used to be so stable and self-controlled...<sigh> madness..i tell you..
Posted by sunny10 on May 10, 2005, at 14:58:10
In reply to solving post relat loneliness and low self-esteem, posted by alesta on May 10, 2005, at 13:58:02
keep legs firmly together....
Prove to yourself you can have a good time without them!!!!
Posted by anastasia56 on May 10, 2005, at 15:12:36
In reply to Re: put on the dress, go to the bar, BUT » alesta, posted by sunny10 on May 10, 2005, at 14:58:10
sunny has a good point there...think of it as an 'a la carte' night out
ana
Posted by 10derHeart on May 10, 2005, at 15:50:58
In reply to Re: put on the dress, go to the bar, BUT » alesta, posted by sunny10 on May 10, 2005, at 14:58:10
> Prove to yourself you can have a good time without them!!!!
...uhhh, would that be without guys, or without her legs?!! ;-)
(sorry, couldn't resist, it's a shameless self-therapy technique I use Babble for when I've been a bit down and am starting to do better...I think it's called terrible humor imposed on the masses to crack myself up....forgive me, everyone...)
(..and PS - no offense intended to anyone seriously missing any limbs....I was just word-playing...)
Posted by alesta on May 10, 2005, at 20:46:08
In reply to solving post relat loneliness and low self-esteem, posted by alesta on May 10, 2005, at 13:58:02
didn't go to the bar..i don't feel like having a chaperone (my mother) watching me practice the art of seduction...<snort - sorry..had to borrow that gg, it was so bloody charming!:)> heheee!
Posted by Shy_Girl on May 10, 2005, at 23:05:01
In reply to solving post relat loneliness and low self-esteem, posted by alesta on May 10, 2005, at 13:58:02
> i feel tempted to do something a bit drastic/wild..like put on my blue dress and blue pumps and go to a bar and make out with some random guys..i'm not a slut, i just really miss having a guy..but i don't want a relationship.
I don't think you need a guy to have some fun :-)
I wish we could go to the bar together...I've never been to a bar before. It would be very exciting for me :-)...I could try out some fancy drinks...I've only had a peach schnapps. I tried beer once...it was yucky to me.I hope you feel better Amy :-)
Posted by alesta on May 11, 2005, at 0:26:18
In reply to Re: solving post relat loneliness and low self-esteem » alesta, posted by Shy_Girl on May 10, 2005, at 23:05:01
>
> I don't think you need a guy to have some fun :-)
> I wish we could go to the bar together...I've never been to a bar before. It would be very exciting for me :-)...I could try out some fancy drinks...I've only had a peach schnapps. I tried beer once...it was yucky to me.
>
> I hope you feel better Amy :-)
>awwww..thank you jenny! :-) yes, you are so right..just hanging out and having a few drinks with friend/s would be fun..i think we'd have a blast! you don't happen to live anywhere near DC or Virginia do you? it would be nice to have a friend IRL to party with..this internet chat stuff leaves you kinda high and dry (spesking for meself)..man..i need to get out! i still would have to wait til i move out of here though..i should have an apartment soon. i digress..don't even know if you're in the area!
it would be exciting to me, too, to try new drinks and whatnot..amy:)
Posted by Shy_Girl on May 11, 2005, at 1:00:37
In reply to hitting the bars.. » Shy_Girl, posted by alesta on May 11, 2005, at 0:26:18
> awwww..thank you jenny! :-) yes, you are so right..just hanging out and having a few drinks with friend/s would be fun..i think we'd have a blast!
Me too!...esp. with the nice people here :-) Meeting people IRL is very hard to me to do. Meeting people here IRL might be easier for me, since I can get to know people here first.
>you don't happen to live anywhere near DC or Virginia do you?
Nope, unfortunately. I live in Ottawa, Ontario...up in Canada. It'll be quite a long drive to get to DC...that is, if I could drive :)
Still gotta get my license...I just had ONE more driving lesson to do...totally wimped out...couldn't handle the anxiety!...total FEAR!>it would be nice to have a friend IRL to party with..this internet chat stuff leaves you kinda high and dry (spesking for meself)..man..i need to get out!
Agreed! I need to get myself some friends IRL...it would be great if they can know the online me...then they might be able to wait for this me to come out. :-)
> it would be exciting to me, too, to try new drinks and whatnot..amy:)
Yep...much more fun with a friend too. I'm curious about this "polar bear?" type drink my sister raved about. It's supposed to taste like chocolate and mint? Hehe, there's so much I haven't experienced in life yet...
I hope you feel much better...it's fun to chat :)
Take care (((Amy)))
jenny
Posted by sunny10 on May 11, 2005, at 9:45:12
In reply to Re: put on the dress, go to the bar, BUT » sunny10, posted by 10derHeart on May 10, 2005, at 15:50:58
Posted by 10derHeart on May 11, 2005, at 11:43:14
In reply to Re: first you make me cry- then you make me laugh (nm) » 10derHeart, posted by sunny10 on May 11, 2005, at 9:45:12
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