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Posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 11:13:12
Work S*cks
Home S*cks
Marriage S*cks
Losing friendships due to insane, socially introverted, immature, jealous husband S*cks
Not being able to babble due to same above idiot S*cks
Not being able to e-mail or respond to posts directed at me due to same dull above S*cks
Having to decide between taking a much needed cigarette break from the hell on earth I am experiencing at work or being able to e-mail or respond to babble posts directed at me S*cks!!!!!!!Deciding to smoke instead, my lungs are asking me for it......I hear them loud and clear......
Posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 12:38:52
In reply to S*ck, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 11:13:12
(((((((AdaGrace))))))))
I have been in the same postion before. It most decidely s*cks.
I wish I knew how to help. My way was most definitely not a good way out... I wish I wasn't "crazy" when everyone was telling me all the things I should've done; maybe I'd remember them all and be able to help.
I KNOW there were "shoulda, coulda, woulda"'s, so there ARE solutions out there. Maybe you could check with a domestic abuse outreach program?
Even if your "insane, socially introverted, immature, jealous husband" doesn't use fists or physical weapons, these programs do understand that you are a "victim" of emotional abuse. I don't care much for labels myself, but if they consider you a "victim" they will use their resources to help you figure out how to deal with the situation....
I don't know if I'm helping you, I am so stressed out myself I don't know which end is up; I just want to TRY to help...
sunny10
Posted by partlycloudy on February 15, 2005, at 12:43:33
In reply to S*ck, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 11:13:12
Speaking purely as a former smoker, I'd say use the time to babble!
Posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 12:47:09
In reply to I'm seeing stars.... » AdaGrace, posted by partlycloudy on February 15, 2005, at 12:43:33
you convert, you.... (mwah)- I've quit to.... dozens of times.... once for 9 months and once for 18 mos...Good for you for actually succeeding!
(psst, AG, I'm a smoker, too, I feel your pain!)
{giggling while I write this, by the way, if the bon homie I mean is not obvious}
Posted by partlycloudy on February 15, 2005, at 13:36:35
In reply to Re: I'm seeing stars.... » partlycloudy, posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 12:47:09
Mon amie, I feel your bon homie!
Posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 13:40:52
In reply to S*ck, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 11:13:12
It's almost time to give you my phone number honey. I hope he's not being violent with you.
Posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 13:47:21
In reply to Oh Gosh AdaGrace, posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 13:40:52
You email me directly. Are you allowed on email at all AG? Because if you are, I can change address and identity for you if that's going to be any help? If you're not in therapy and this helps you, AG, don't give it up. DO NOT ISOLATE YOURSELF, REPEAT AFTER ME AG, DO NOT ISOLATE YOURSELF. STOP IT IF THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE DOING. IF YOU CAN.
Posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 14:02:59
In reply to Re: Oh Gosh AdaGrace*Poss Trigger*, posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 13:47:21
no isolating, please.
Hopefully the smoke breaks are with colleagues, at least???
Does he read all of your email?
Posted by Toph on February 15, 2005, at 14:13:15
In reply to S*ck, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 11:13:12
Hi Grace, missed you. My wife, though not quite as controlling, doesn't understand my computer use either. So, I jump on it when she's gone, I use the library PCs, and i post at work. The latter will get me canned one day. If only all of us who care about you could combine our goodwill into one powerful psychic help-ray we could beam it to your house where you could decide who would benefit most, you or the introvert.
Toph
Posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 17:59:48
In reply to S*ck, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 11:13:12
Privacy
Self Respect..........LOL didn't have any of that anyway
Security
Money
Dignity
Friends
Friends Dignity
Peace
Time Alone
And NOW I am living a dream. His dream.
"Tell me you love me"
"Tell me you will never leave me"
"Here eat something so you will get fat again and noone will look at you"
"You don't need the phone, I'll make the call for you"
"Everything we do from now on will be together, do you understand?"
"I don't want to have to yell at you again, so don't do anything that will make me mad, because you know you started all of this, and you know you are to blame for everything"
"I have never done anything wrong, it's always been you"
"You are bad, you need to be taught a lesson, you are not a good person"
Posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 18:00:57
In reply to Re: Stripped of everything, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 17:59:48
Here, I did it for you........
Posted by saw on February 16, 2005, at 2:51:03
In reply to Re: S*ck » AdaGrace, posted by Toph on February 15, 2005, at 14:13:15
Toph, I sit in that can with you.
Sabrina
Posted by saw on February 16, 2005, at 2:53:32
In reply to Re: I'm seeing stars.... » sunny10, posted by partlycloudy on February 15, 2005, at 13:36:35
It is 10 months and 16 days since I last smoked. Not a day goes by that I don't wish for just one smoke.
Thank goodness I gave up - I wouldn't be able to choose between the two.
Sabrina
Posted by saw on February 16, 2005, at 2:54:17
In reply to Re: Stripped of everything, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 17:59:48
Uck! You making me scared to send you emails.
Wish you could talk about this.
Posted by Toph on February 16, 2005, at 3:34:40
In reply to Re: S*ck » Toph, posted by saw on February 16, 2005, at 2:51:03
Posted by AdaGrace on February 16, 2005, at 17:00:56
In reply to Dr. Bob - Please Redirect, posted by AdaGrace on February 15, 2005, at 18:00:57
Actually I didn't though, cuz I don't know how.
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