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Posted by Jai Narayan on April 24, 2004, at 11:04:50
I have started my biggest chunk of therapy on sexual trauma.
I am embarking on liberation from my trauma filled past.
I am looking at my life from birth till now.
With prayers and hope I am working for my total liberation.
If only a tiny bit changes I will feel better but I guess why not strive for the everything.
Go for the gold.
If anyone is interested I will post up dates.
I can't think of anywhere else where people would, could and will understand this process.
I would love your support.
It already feels like a rocky road...very little sleep last night and I had to have my light on to doze off.
But something I have avoided all my life has begun.
Posted by tabitha on April 24, 2004, at 13:10:02
In reply to sexual liberation, posted by Jai Narayan on April 24, 2004, at 11:04:50
good for you. what are your goals? someday I hope to better integrate my sexuality.. it's been misused, and thwarted. I don't know if working on intimacy and attachment issues will take care of it, or if it's a separate topic. it's confusing.
Posted by Jai Narayan on April 24, 2004, at 14:36:07
In reply to Re: sexual liberation, posted by tabitha on April 24, 2004, at 13:10:02
> good for you. what are your goals?
**that's a good question.
1. the first thing I have done is my herstory.
2. second is look for a key...the earliest experience
3. Using EMDR I will go for the earliest and most emtional trauma and liberate it from one corner of my brain.
4.Once my whole brain gets time with the experience with the guiding mind of my therapist my life changes.
5. I have no idea how long this will take. I am prepared for anything.
Heck I spent 56 years with this burden...I guess one or two weeks, months, years....seems pretty short.
Posted by fayeroe on April 24, 2004, at 19:33:39
In reply to Goals, posted by Jai Narayan on April 24, 2004, at 14:36:07
Having been through this, you have my full and undiluted support...I am proud of you! It will be hard and it will be slow but it is worth every minute of it! Keep us posted. I want to know how it is going at all times. xoxoxo
Posted by Tootercat on April 25, 2004, at 10:41:57
In reply to sexual liberation, posted by Jai Narayan on April 24, 2004, at 11:04:50
Jai, honey, I am scared with you and thrilled for you! Having now experienced what truly soulful and integrated sexual intimacy is I can tell you it is worth finding! I am a fully integrated woman with my sweetie. I used to use sex as a tool because it was what I learned. I got past that but still didn't know what "intimacy" without intercourse was. With my "Bear" I have been able to be all of me....little girl, mature adult, friend/companion, sultry vixen and more! He appreciates and responds to all of me.The most intimate thing of all is when he looks deeply into my eyes and I feel no fear but the most wonderful trust and love and hope. I believe though that I had to come to a place where I could respond to all of them before I would be able to share which is why he came into my life. My heart and thoughts are with you!
Love,
Toots
Posted by Jai Narayan on April 25, 2004, at 18:45:38
In reply to Re: sexual liberation » Jai Narayan, posted by Tootercat on April 25, 2004, at 10:41:57
> Jai, honey, I am scared with you and thrilled for you! Having now experienced what truly soulful and integrated sexual intimacy is I can tell you it is worth finding!
*so it's possible....wow.
I am a fully integrated woman with my sweetie. **I am so happy for you.
The most intimate thing of all is when he looks deeply into my eyes and I feel no fear but the most wonderful trust and love and hope.
***I hope, I hope, I hope......My heart and thoughts are with you!
****if I get such fabulous results...I will tell you. It's funny how you don't even know what you're missing when it's not there.
Thanks for your support.
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