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Posted by inthegloaming on March 31, 2004, at 8:25:24
oh... oh this girl.
she is the eloise in paris to my harriet the spy. she's killing me from the inside out; just watching her hurts sometimes but other times she makes me laugh and laugh and laugh. we sit around all day and share our collective brain cell and it all just hums so perfectly and i want to lean over and kiss her cheek but i can't. i love all the things she hates about herself--her stomach, the bump in her once-broken nose--and i listen to the cadence of the voice she doesn't like just to hear the sounds of it. she is mischevious and devious and grand and she smiles like she's sitting on a million silly secrets, like she's hatching a million silly plans. which she is.
when she's upset it hurts me too and i want to take it from her, take it on myself so she doesn't start to cry or look so tired or say the harsh things she says. but i stand there, useless, with my wimpy words.
i wait for her to come home, just to see her in my doorway. just to see the color in her cheeks and hear her wacky stories of an ordinary day.
my best friend says it's amazing how i notice these details in people, that not many people do this. but... but how can you not?
siiigh.
Posted by Karen_kay on March 31, 2004, at 9:23:35
In reply to crushing so hard, posted by inthegloaming on March 31, 2004, at 8:25:24
wowsa! i know this feeling. i have it for dr. bob. lean over and kiss her on the cheek. what's the worst that can happen? if she says anything negative, say she had ketchup on her.
Posted by Angielala on March 31, 2004, at 9:33:09
In reply to Re: crushing so hard, posted by Karen_kay on March 31, 2004, at 9:23:35
Sounds like she's sending you vibes... I say, if the moment's right, a light kiss on the cheek would be perfect. When she asks what it was for, tell her that it was for inspiring you :)
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 31, 2004, at 12:23:35
In reply to crushing so hard, posted by inthegloaming on March 31, 2004, at 8:25:24
I notice things like that in all people its in part PTSD I was told but I see it also as a romantic personailty in tune with the other....I can tell peoples moods in a second..and one I love...oh yes I see things and feel the depth of what you say on your loved one..Are you to shy to make a move?
Posted by 64Bowtie on March 31, 2004, at 12:31:01
In reply to crushing so hard, posted by inthegloaming on March 31, 2004, at 8:25:24
intheglo,
I want so badly to create at the level you do... My son writes and thinks like this but lacks some motivation and lots of direction in his life. Every day I wake hoping he is telling the truth that he doesn't need or want drugs. Perhaps he will let his guard down and we can write together some day, soonly....
Rod
Posted by Tootercat on March 31, 2004, at 15:55:22
In reply to crushing so hard, posted by inthegloaming on March 31, 2004, at 8:25:24
I completely understand. I now have someone in my life with whom I share similar feelings. He loves things about me that I thought were unlovable and I love things about him that he wishes he could hide...I think that's one of the signs of true love! She doesn't know how you feel?
Toots
Posted by inthegloaming on March 31, 2004, at 23:56:01
In reply to My my you are smitten aren't you?, posted by Tootercat on March 31, 2004, at 15:55:22
oh, she does know. someone else informed her, against my wishes--what a... well, what a 'instert word not appropriate for 'babble here.'
siiigh... alas, not interested. now sometimes she'll be vauge in conversation with another person in front of me and i'll ask about it and she'll say 'never mind, it'll be awkward.' so sad that she's keeping secrets from me....
thanks to rod for the complements on my writing. sorry my spelling's so cr*p.
--g.
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