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Posted by yesac on August 8, 2003, at 16:53:34
In reply to Re: Does anyone here know a lot about Cat behavior?, posted by Ted on August 8, 2003, at 14:15:22
Posted by zenhussy on August 8, 2003, at 17:00:15
In reply to What is IsoM? Not up on the lingo... (nm), posted by yesac on August 8, 2003, at 16:53:34
yesac,
Who not what is IsoM? Hee hee.
IsoM is a very dear poster who is cat savvy and much missed around these here parts.
I was just putting a holler out should IsoM be lurking. My hope is that the summer has been a busy one for IsoM.
zenhussy
Posted by yesac on August 8, 2003, at 17:20:45
In reply to Re: What is IsoM? Not up on the lingo... » yesac, posted by zenhussy on August 8, 2003, at 17:00:15
Oh... lol... I just thought it was another of those IMHO (which took me a while to figure out) sort of things! Now that I think about it, I do recall seeing the name here and there.
Posted by slinky on August 9, 2003, at 1:04:23
In reply to Re: What is IsoM? Not up on the lingo... » yesac, posted by zenhussy on August 8, 2003, at 17:00:15
My pussy is a very fussy eater.Doesn't even like expensive food.
Only eats a little--isn't skinny-but close to it.
Don't give in to the cute meows--mine likes tuna also but stopped it and resorted back to catfood.
Last night she caught a bird..they tease and play for ages--cruel nature.
She now lives outside which is good cause she's got fleas
MeOw.
Posted by BekkaH on August 9, 2003, at 1:15:40
In reply to Re: Miss IsoM , posted by slinky on August 9, 2003, at 1:04:23
I miss IsoM, too. I hope she returns soon.
Posted by kara lynne on August 9, 2003, at 2:01:33
In reply to Re: Miss IsoM - slinky, posted by BekkaH on August 9, 2003, at 1:15:40
Posted by kara lynne on August 9, 2003, at 2:02:26
In reply to Re: Miss IsoM - slinky, posted by BekkaH on August 9, 2003, at 1:15:40
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 9, 2003, at 4:26:34
In reply to Does anyone here know a lot about Cat behavior?, posted by gabbix2 on August 8, 2003, at 14:05:17
> My cat is acting like an *ss.
Sorry to be such a prude, but please don't use language that could be considered vulgar or obscene, thanks.
Bob
Posted by gabbix2 on August 9, 2003, at 10:56:37
In reply to Re: please be civil » gabbix2, posted by Dr. Bob on August 9, 2003, at 4:26:34
like a mule.. or should I have said donkey??
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 10, 2003, at 10:13:39
In reply to Dr. Bob.. My cat was being stubborn.. » Dr. Bob, posted by gabbix2 on August 9, 2003, at 10:56:37
> like a mule.. or should I have said donkey??
Either "mule" or "donkey" would've been fine...
Bob
Posted by gabbix2 on August 10, 2003, at 13:49:43
In reply to Re: My cat was being stubborn.. » gabbix2, posted by Dr. Bob on August 10, 2003, at 10:13:39
Posted by Ted on August 10, 2003, at 15:53:28
In reply to Re: My cat was being stubborn.. » gabbix2, posted by Dr. Bob on August 10, 2003, at 10:13:39
Dr. Bob,
> > like a mule.. or should I have said donkey??
>
> Either "mule" or "donkey" would've been fine...Fine, but incorrect. Please see:
http://www.greenapple.com/~jorp/amzanim/donkterm.htm
You will find that *** (the 3-letter word you find offensive) is THE CORRECT term for donkey, burro, etc. So for Gabbi to use Donkey as a substitute would force her to use an incorrect term for what she meant.
'nuff said.
Ted
Posted by gabbix2 on August 10, 2003, at 16:09:10
In reply to On mules, donkeys, ***es, etc. » Dr. Bob, posted by Ted on August 10, 2003, at 15:53:28
I mean far be it for me to turn this into a game of verbal gymna*tics.
Posted by Susan J on August 11, 2003, at 15:17:00
In reply to Thx Ted I never would have thought to a*k about it, posted by gabbix2 on August 10, 2003, at 16:09:10
Hi, guys.
I was reading through this thread and saw the "semantic" turn it took.
Yeah, a** is probably a correct term to describe stubborness. I don't think anyone would dispute you on this. I just think that the use of the word a** has become more like vulgar slang and really could offend someone.
Please don't take offense at Dr. Bob's post. You probably didn't -- but the tone of your e-mail suggests you might have. I'm sure it was just a gentle reminder.
We can be technically correct and polite at the same time.
Posted by gabbix2 on August 11, 2003, at 15:34:16
In reply to Re: Thx Ted I never would have thought to a*k about it » gabbix2, posted by Susan J on August 11, 2003, at 15:17:00
I don't really think its semantics though
the correct term for donkey is an**
using a correct term is hardly uncivil.It seems silly to have to use an incorrect term
because the sound of an a** may offend someone.
especially when its been used before on the board
to describe a donkey.
actually this month and not been given a P.B.C.And I was actually not trying to be nasty toward
Dr. Bob, it was meant as a gentle Ribbing..
Posted by gabbix2 on August 11, 2003, at 16:08:35
In reply to Re: Thx Ted I never would have thought to a*k about it » Susan J, posted by gabbix2 on August 11, 2003, at 15:34:16
I like to pick my battles, I'll just use stubborn :)
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 12, 2003, at 1:33:40
In reply to Re: Thx Ted I never would have thought to a*k about it » Susan J, posted by gabbix2 on August 11, 2003, at 15:34:16
> It seems silly to have to use an incorrect term
> because the sound of an a** may offend someone.Me, I don't think someone being offended is silly.
Bob
Posted by Susan J on August 12, 2003, at 8:32:28
In reply to Its not *that* important to me though, posted by gabbix2 on August 11, 2003, at 16:08:35
No, I'm sorry. If it was gentle ribbing I had no right to even comment.
Hope you didn't take offense.
Susan
Posted by gabbix2 on August 12, 2003, at 13:12:12
In reply to Re: offend someone, posted by Dr. Bob on August 12, 2003, at 1:33:40
Dr Bob, I think it should be pretty clear, that I don't like hurting people's feelings or offending them, I've apologized more than a few times, when I've thought I've been off the cuff or sounded harsh, and Overall I try to be positive and encouraging.
It all depends on what you consider offensive,
having to twist the english language in case it may upset someone, which I find offensive.
The arbitrary nature of the P.B.C as the term a** has been used for donkey on this board before without a p.b.c
or the term A** period. And really this has gone on way longer than I'd intended, I was kiddingI'm sorry. And now I'm offended! Because this was not intended to be a big deal.
And of course I'm about to be redirected
I give up.
Posted by gabbix2 on August 12, 2003, at 13:33:14
In reply to Re: Its not *that* important to me though » gabbix2, posted by Susan J on August 12, 2003, at 8:32:28
at all, its kind of hard to tell when someone's typing, whats a dig and whats just kidding,
and if I had been offended, your apology would have fixed it. I'm forever jumping in where I shouldn't and apologizing afterward :(
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 12, 2003, at 20:07:32
In reply to I give up! Dr. Bob » Dr. Bob, posted by gabbix2 on August 12, 2003, at 13:12:12
> I don't like hurting people's feelings or offending them
>
> having to twist the english language in case it may upset someone ... I find offensive.Well, if someone doesn't like to offend others, but at the same time doesn't like twisting the language so they don't offend others, I'm not sure where that leaves them...
> The arbitrary nature of the P.B.C as the term a** has been used for donkey on this board before without a p.b.c
I know it may be a change, sorry about that, but the main idea is to be *less* arbitrary. Since now I'm just going by what Merriam-Webster OnLine says:
> this was not intended to be a big deal.
Sorry if I made it into a big deal. I was just trying to explain.
Bob
Posted by gabbix2 on August 12, 2003, at 22:09:36
In reply to Re: I give up! , posted by Dr. Bob on August 12, 2003, at 20:07:32
I thought what you said about offending others not being 'silly' was gratuitous.
And yes, it *really* was hurtful I'm not getting on a soapbox.
It was hurtful Because I try not to offend,and I think the fact that I don't think offending others is silly should be quite apparent.
I don't know why you felt you had to point that out to me
after I had already said,
'Its okay, I'll just use stubborn its not that big a deal"And somehow it seemed okay to make me feel very put down, to somehow defend others who may be offended by the term that is *not* donkey.
Reactionary? perhaps. But I think I'm probably not so different from any other babbler in that I'm on disability, my prescriptions were not filled properly again! I'm out of food, and have now had macaroni for 3 meals 3 days in a row.
A pipe in my apt exploded, but I need not bother the manager cause its a welfare apt, and nobody cares that my apartment smells like a sewer.
I'm dealing with a mental illness and shoddy medical treatment as best I can while trying to stay somewhat positive.And I tune in to find myself being nitpicked for using the term *ss instead of donkey after I've already voluntarily said I won't do it AGAIN!!
I'm afraid it just brought out the devil in me
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 13, 2003, at 7:59:37
In reply to Re: I give up! » Dr. Bob, posted by gabbix2 on August 12, 2003, at 22:09:36
> I'm on disability, my prescriptions were not filled properly again! I'm out of food, and have now had macaroni for 3 meals 3 days in a row.
> A pipe in my apt exploded, but I need not bother the manager cause its a welfare apt, and nobody cares that my apartment smells like a sewer.
> And I tune in to find myself being nitpicked for using the term *ss instead of donkey after I've already voluntarily said I won't do it AGAIN!!
>
> I'm afraid it just brought out the devil in meSorry about that. No nitpicking this time, at least. Best wishes,
Bob
Posted by gabbix2 on August 13, 2003, at 10:43:47
In reply to Re: I give up!, posted by Dr. Bob on August 13, 2003, at 7:59:37
You have no idea the difference that made.
Thanks
G
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 13, 2003, at 19:18:28
In reply to Thank you » Dr. Bob, posted by gabbix2 on August 13, 2003, at 10:43:47
This is the end of the thread.
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