Psycho-Babble Social Thread 248091

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O Woe Is Me...Long

Posted by elbee on August 4, 2003, at 16:27:02

Hi,
I'm mostly a long-time lurker on this board. I once misinterpreted someone & hurt their feelings so decided lurking was best for me...

Anyhow I'm feeling very sad for a number of reasons:
1.) I have a serious and rare endocrine disorder which is causing me to be fatigued, etc. It's clear (and real) what it is, but is taking a while to figure out.
2.)I haven't done much about my social life in a very long while due to a personal reason which is much in the news lately.
3.)I went back to school (i'm mid 30's). However I have gotten incompletes due to fatigue from endo. problem.
4.)I quit my assistantship w/school so I could focus on studies but can't decide whether to go back to school or just forget it (I wasn't sure if field was right one..but also feeling bad).
-I will no longer have a job by end of August.
-If I go back to school I have to get taxes done w/I haven't because of illness.
5.)Tho. I am responsible, etc. discrimination due to bipolar disorder has led to some mistreatment and delayed my diagnosis (you have no idea..).
6.) I was seeing a p-doc & tolerated his insensitivity as he was the only campus p-doc available. I'm semi-getting somewhere re: being diagnosed (endo. condition) but feel uncomfortable that my endo. asked to talk to very insensistive p-doc. (My long-standing condition has a related condition which can be caused by pschological problems.
7.) People who have had my endo. condition strongly encourage others to see very specialized doctor for diagnosis. I have mixed feelings about this (non specialized) endo. She is open-minded but not as responsive/knowledgeable as an out-of-state specialist would be. But then there are the insurance issues/lack of reliable car.

Bummer.

 

Re: O Woe Is Me...Long » elbee

Posted by Kar on August 5, 2003, at 8:43:54

In reply to O Woe Is Me...Long, posted by elbee on August 4, 2003, at 16:27:02

Hi Elbee.

>3.)I went back to school (i'm mid 30's). However I have gotten incompletes

Congratulations for going back! It's tough not to be frustrated about that, I know. It took me a long time to finally graduate from college. I went from incompletes to dropped classes. Left and right. God, I look at my transcripts and look at all of the W/D's and I can't believe I finally got enough credits to graduate! I was lucky enought to have my parents' support, mind you.

>delayed my diagnosis (you have no idea..
I bet we do! Unfortunately...

Forgive me if I missed it, but are you on a message boards for your condition Seems like it might help. You probably thought of that tho.

Sounds like you have a whole wheelbarrow full of things to deal with. I know this sounds as if I'm minimizing your problems, but maybe it would help to focus on only a few things at a time. i know that one problem affects the other, but you sound so oeverwhelmed. Maybe a few pieces of the pie instead of the whole thing.

Sorry things are so tough.
I'm sure there'll be others with suggestions and support...

 

Re: O Woe Is Me...Long

Posted by elbee on August 5, 2003, at 13:06:35

In reply to Re: O Woe Is Me...Long » elbee, posted by Kar on August 5, 2003, at 8:43:54

Kar,
Thanks for your very supportive post. Glad you had the guts to go back to school & that you obviously succeeded.

I really thought your advice was helpful--especially to try to take things one at a time. I think I will try to do that so I can focus my efforts & be less overwhelmed.

Am active on support site re: endo condition & it has been a godsend.

Thanks again for the empathy & encouragement.

 

No problema- take care... (nm) » elbee

Posted by Kar on August 6, 2003, at 13:37:20

In reply to Re: O Woe Is Me...Long, posted by elbee on August 5, 2003, at 13:06:35


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