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Posted by Dinah on September 7, 2002, at 10:01:16
But I need an answer right away. (Sorry Dr. Bob).
My anger yesterday was with my therapist who is going out of town starting tomorrow. He's suggested seeing me today so that we don't part on bad terms, and yesterday while I still felt the anger I agreed.
But today I don't feel the anger (although I'm sure it's still there just beyond my awareness) and I think I might be better off just forgetting the whole thing and cancelling today's appointment. Any thoughts?
Dinah
Posted by fiona on September 7, 2002, at 10:17:45
In reply to Quick question that really belongs on PPB., posted by Dinah on September 7, 2002, at 10:01:16
Are you afraid that if you see him the anger will come back? Or is there another reason?
I, personally, would see him to clear the air, but I can imagine why you would want to just forget about it and let sleeping dogs lie. I haven't really ever had a problem with my therapist, so I don't know how you must be feeling.
Sorry that I am not much help.Fiona
Posted by nikioct73 on September 7, 2002, at 10:29:22
In reply to Re: Quick question that really belongs on PPB., posted by fiona on September 7, 2002, at 10:17:45
Dinah..
Glad your feeling better..but I think Fiona is right go see him...air it out..if this is someone you trust and respect to keep the 'relationship' in good standing..hard as hell to find a good TXist.. Good luck..
Niki
Posted by Robin David John on September 7, 2002, at 11:01:35
In reply to Quick question that really belongs on PPB., posted by Dinah on September 7, 2002, at 10:01:16
Pamper yourself to the fullist and dont pay any attension to any one ..that my thought on this
Have Peace today ..(-: spend money and see grat looking men when your out , daydream great umhum and fantisize ..just give it up and do it
Posted by Dinah on September 7, 2002, at 11:44:03
In reply to Re: Quick question that really belongs on PPB., posted by nikioct73 on September 7, 2002, at 10:29:22
I suppose avoidance shouldn't be used ALL the time as a coping method. :)
Dinah
Posted by _alii_ on September 7, 2002, at 12:05:06
In reply to Re: Thanks, I will keep appointment., posted by Dinah on September 7, 2002, at 11:44:03
> I suppose avoidance shouldn't be used ALL the time as a coping method. :)
>
> DinahVery wise of you Dinah. Glad you are keeping appt. Sending you good energy so that you can hopefully get in touch with some of that anger while there with your therapist.
Take care.
--Alii
Posted by Dinah on September 7, 2002, at 18:16:41
In reply to Re: Thanks, I will keep appointment. » Dinah, posted by _alii_ on September 7, 2002, at 12:05:06
Can't say I got in touch with my anger, but we hammered out a compromise worthy of the UN, complete with contingency sub-agreements. And he apologized. So I'm a happy enough camper.
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