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Posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 15:52:07
In an email we wrote to T.
Bout it is true. Ya we did say stuff B4.
Touch.
SH*T.
A different one came around.
Very tough but younger than toughie.
Younger than Ikid.
It swears alot???a kid????
Anyhow, swore alot in the mail, said some stuff, called T every name in the book.
Said to never ever say again.
I dunno who this is, but it knows stuff I don't.
It has tears too I think but I careful to keep them away.
This is new.
Damn.
No tears allowed.
No need to reply, just wanted to say this is all.
M
Posted by TherapyGirl on November 5, 2007, at 18:34:16
In reply to Ok, so I said as how it was true what T said, posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 15:52:07
Muffled, I'm so sorry. And yet part of me knows this needs to happen for you to get all the way there -- to the person you're meant to be (to borrow Daisy's words).
But this sucks right now and I know it does. Has T replied? Or did you make it clear you didn't want her to?
I'm sorry, my friend.
Posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 19:03:11
In reply to Re: Ok, so I said as how it was true what T said » Muffled, posted by TherapyGirl on November 5, 2007, at 18:34:16
> Muffled, I'm so sorry. And yet part of me knows this needs to happen for you to get all the way there -- to the person you're meant to be (to borrow Daisy's words).
>
> But this sucks right now and I know it does. Has T replied? Or did you make it clear you didn't want her to?
>
> I'm sorry, my friend.*Ya I didn't send the other mail cuz I wasn't sure if it was just mad at T. But this one came direct from kid and I think it was real. I dunno what good it does. There's very little info. Just a bit. I don't think of it.
My T reads mail when she gets to her office Tues A.M. She usu has read most of them by the time I get there.
The ongoing saga of muffled.
I suppose its vaguely interesting, sorta like reading a book.
Thats what I tell myself.
So it was said not to say.
We'll see.
Thanks for your support TG.
M
Posted by RealMe on November 5, 2007, at 22:45:49
In reply to Re: Ok, so I said as how it was true what T said, posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 19:03:11
You should send it or take a copy with you. It IS important.
RealMe
Posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 23:45:31
In reply to Re: Ok, so I said as how it was true what T said » Muffled, posted by RealMe on November 5, 2007, at 22:45:49
Ya thx Realme.
I dunno.
I sent mail to say sorry.
I feel kinda bad all right.
Realme....you OK?
You take care OK?
Post if you want, or its OK if you want a break.
Thanks for your help oK?
M
Posted by B2chica on November 6, 2007, at 8:20:37
In reply to Ok, so I said as how it was true what T said, posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 15:52:07
muffled. i think this is good.
this one expresses great emotion. both anger AND tears? i think that is Great.
is it possible that two have merged?
because being able to show two emotions is wonderful.
and whomever she is. please let her come.
don't let another presence scare you. you need her.
and i like her already.b2c.
Posted by rskontos on November 6, 2007, at 9:26:49
In reply to Ok, so I said as how it was true what T said, posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 15:52:07
Muffled, I think this one is probably one that has an memory or memories of stuff that happened maybe even younger than the others. You are probably getting deeper and you need this but don't be afraid. My T says this will happen only when you are really ready. She isn't necessarily as trusting of your T as the rest of you are. The t should recognize this and be ok with it. Beside you said before that you have had others say really bad things to her both in person and in email and she understood she should this time. I think as hard as this is it is progress. You are getting really deep. My T says that you have to remember that whatever caused the inners to be created can't hurt you the second time when you reliving it. So try telling that to her when she surfaces if you can. My T says we have to try and parent them but assuring them we will be ok. That is what they are looking for safety when they come out. I think you are doing great even though it feels so scary. Hang in there you are doing great! take care, rk
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