![[dr. bob]](/dr-bob-sm.gif)
Dr. Bob is Robert Hsiung, MD,
bob@dr-bob.orgShown: posts 16 to 40 of 53. Go back in thread:
Posted by Dr. Bob on May 1, 2006, at 21:55:50
In reply to Re: No, not really » AuntieMel, posted by Bobby on April 28, 2006, at 20:54:13
> the lowest class Mexico has to offer
I'm sorry your family isn't more secure, but please be sensitive to the feelings of those here from Mexico.
But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 15:32:53
In reply to Re: No, not really » AuntieMel, posted by Bobby on April 28, 2006, at 20:54:13
I'm glad you've got the money to go on a spending spree. I didn't purchase anything all week, so maybe I balanced you out, but I doubt it. Judging from the state taxes you pay, I'd say you have a lot more financial security (and mad money) than I do, so my small protest probably couldn't counter yours.
By the way, in case you're interested, I have felt extremely hurt and greatly offended by your posts on this thread.
Posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:04:24
In reply to Re: No, not really Bobby, posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 15:32:53
your research? Provide references, links, whatever? (You encouraged us to look into the subject.) I'm particularly interested in the statistics you discovered relating to the negative effect on Social Security caused by immigrants as opposed to other factors. Thanks.
Posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:07:18
In reply to hey bobby could you share, posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:04:24
have? Personally, I believe in ZPG. What's your view?
Posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:09:10
In reply to Re: hey bobby how many kids do you, posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:07:18
do you drive?
Posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:30:57
In reply to Re: hey bobby what kind of car, posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:09:10
In my experience most of the "illegals getting a free ride" are native peoples, Indians. Just like our North American Indians. Ancient cultures who were invaded by Europeans, their lands stolen, their cultures destroyed. And they've been persecuted, financially enslaved, kept in poverty for a couple hundred years by invaders. By people who stole their land.
As for Dinah's reservations about "material gains", I must ask what is meant by that? Is it "material" to want to teach your children to read? To feed your children? To provide a modicum of health care to your children? Do "material" matters include living in a trailor that's not so riddled with mold and mildew that your children are constantly sick? Or is materialism about being able to see a theapist 2 times a week (and willfully refusing to "improve" so you can have lifetime therapy?) and finding a private school that precisely suits the needs of your child?
I'm sorry if I have some trouble with others' interpretations of "materialism". And with others' interpretations of "invasion".
PS Sorry, too that I got Colbert's name wrong. It's Stephen Colbert.
Posted by henrietta on May 6, 2006, at 0:53:19
In reply to history bobby, posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:30:57
I am truly sorry I was not able to remain civil in my above posts. I regret any hurt I may have caused, and will readily accept a very long and well-deserved block.
henrietta
Posted by Estella on May 7, 2006, at 1:43:20
In reply to Apology, posted by henrietta on May 6, 2006, at 0:53:19
i feel sad when people don't think everyone has a right to life (hence society has a duty to provide enough for basic needs being met for ALL HUMAN BEINGS)
because...
of feeling insecure that ones own family won't have certain 'luxuries' ('luxuries' i mean in comparison to basic needs like some kind of shelter, food, basic healthcare and education etc etc)
i feel very sad about that indeed.
(((((((hen))))))))
Posted by Dinah on May 7, 2006, at 3:33:17
In reply to history bobby, posted by henrietta on May 5, 2006, at 19:30:57
> Or is materialism about being able to see a theapist 2 times a week and finding a private school that precisely suits the needs of your child?
Yes, if I recall my point correctly, and I'm not sure I do, it occurred to me to wonder if that was a good definition of a better life. Or a worse one, for that matter. Or if it was even culturally insensitive of me to judge any one way of life as being better than another.
As long, of course, as basic necessities are being met.
My grandpa used to pick expired products out of supermarket trash bins, because that was the only way to get "luxuries" like store bought pickles or store bought bread. There wasn't much in his fridge that didn't have a big black X on it. But he and my grandma appeared to be happy people, at peace with themselves. By material standards, perhaps not overly successful, by other measures enormously so.
Posted by zazenduck on May 7, 2006, at 12:44:15
In reply to Apology, posted by henrietta on May 6, 2006, at 0:53:19
what are you doing in a place like this?
Posted by henrietta on May 7, 2006, at 19:59:16
In reply to hen is a wise passionate chick » henrietta, posted by zazenduck on May 7, 2006, at 12:44:15
Thank you so much
Posted by henrietta on May 7, 2006, at 20:57:16
In reply to thank you star and duck, posted by henrietta on May 7, 2006, at 19:59:16
You've no idea how much that meant to me. again, thank you.
hen
Posted by Bobby on May 7, 2006, at 21:11:47
In reply to Estella and Zazenduck, posted by henrietta on May 7, 2006, at 20:57:16
I'm part native american--doesn'that give me free reign to get rid of the europeons?
Posted by Estella on May 8, 2006, at 5:48:14
In reply to Re: Estella and Zazenduck, posted by Bobby on May 7, 2006, at 21:11:47
> I'm part native american--doesn'that give me free reign to get rid of the europeons?
what do you think?
was anybody in the us before the native americans?
reperation... i think you are owed one hell of a lot in reparation.
a lot of what was done to the american indians was shameful.
giving them blankets infested with small pox and relocating them to canada... stuff like that.
a lot of things like that happened in nz too. to the maori (indigenous people of nz). don't think anybody was here before them (though that is a bit arguable).
they were invited to church at which point the doors were barred shut and the church was set on fire.
they are owed reperation imho.
years of racism thereafter...
they are owed reperation.
but then i also think... that all human beings have a right to life. my understanding was that your ancestors were pretty nice and friendly to the immigrants to america. your ancestors got f*cked over. badly. that sucks. but imho... don't perpeptuate the cycle. there are people from mexico and africa etc etc who are having a little trouble.
remember your roots...
i know people think i'm crazy...
but better to die with a clean conscience
but that being said
i understand the rage
Posted by Estella on May 8, 2006, at 10:07:26
In reply to Estella and Zazenduck, posted by henrietta on May 7, 2006, at 20:57:16
you are beautiful hen.
i'm sorry we didn't get the chance to talk more.
i have some idea how much it means...
oh yes indeed i do.
take care.
Posted by henrietta on May 8, 2006, at 15:00:09
In reply to Re: Estella and Zazenduck » henrietta, posted by Estella on May 8, 2006, at 10:07:26
Thank you, Estella Star.
You're beautiful, too. Please take good care of yourself. I'm going to try to stay away, not even lurk. But you'll be lurking in my heart, dear. ((((EstellaK)))))
hen
Posted by Estella on May 9, 2006, at 4:17:46
In reply to Estella, posted by henrietta on May 8, 2006, at 15:00:09
top 10% over half the wealth of the country...
why is it that there isn't more money in social services...
?
the average joe thinks the average joe must suffer if this and that happens
but the top 10% have over half the wealth...
the problem isn't shortage of wealth IMHO
it is a problem in the distribution
I don't think the US needs more money (it is the richest country in the world)
I think the US needs to worry about a fairer distribution (the top 10% don't need all that money. and people... good hard working americans... illegal immigrants... those are the ones that suffer)
Posted by Sobriquet Style on May 9, 2006, at 7:05:33
In reply to Re: Estella, posted by Estella on May 9, 2006, at 4:17:46
>I don't think the US needs more money (it is the richest country in the world)
I used to think that, but it isn't exactly, depending on how you're viewing who richest using GDP, per capita and/or GNP.
http://www.aneki.com/richest.html
http://www.economist.com/theWorldIn/international/displayStory.cfm?story_id=3372495&d=2005
http://worldatlas.com/geoquiz/thelist.htm
Interesting read...
~
Posted by gardenergirl on May 9, 2006, at 13:00:49
In reply to Re: Estella, posted by Estella on May 9, 2006, at 4:17:46
You know, when I get to thinking about that, I usually end up saying, "How much money does someone need, anyway?" And "How does someone spend all that money?"
But then, I'm often called an idealist.
gg
Posted by wildcardII on May 9, 2006, at 13:02:55
In reply to Re: Estella » Estella, posted by gardenergirl on May 9, 2006, at 13:00:49
~i often wonder how that 10% can spend so much on things when so many are suffering???????????
Posted by Estella on May 10, 2006, at 1:43:12
In reply to Re: Estella, posted by Sobriquet Style on May 9, 2006, at 7:05:33
that is interesting.
and yet still...
http://www.aneki.com/billionaires.html
and so when it comes to the distribution of wealth within the country...
i could be wrong...
but my understanding is that the USA has the biggest imbalance in the distribution of wealth (from within the country) in the developed world.
Posted by Estella on May 10, 2006, at 1:49:47
In reply to Re: Estella » Estella, posted by gardenergirl on May 9, 2006, at 13:00:49
> You know, when I get to thinking about that, I usually end up saying, "How much money does someone need, anyway?" And "How does someone spend all that money?"
I think more money buys you more power and social status. So if you have one billion more than that person down the road that probably buys you more power and social status than that guy down the road...
I don't think they spend all that money.
I think now matter how much you have...
People probably still live in fear that it will be taken away.
From their decsendents...
From their future generations...In fact... Sometimes I think the less you have the less you have to lose (so long as basic needs are met...)
But power...
I think it is about power and status really.
I mean... Imagine if you got to nay or yay research funding...
Imagine if you got to be known as a generous donor
Imagine the power in being top CEO
The company vehicles flights holidays conferences
Funny how those with money...
Don't seem to need to spend much of it...Hmm
HrmBut IMHO it isn't the middle class who need to lose out in order for everyone to have their basic needs met...
But would we be able to learn to be happy with being middle class...
Without the dream of hitting the top, without the dream of our descendents hitting the top?
Being a millionare... Being a billionare...
The potential for that.Is that what freedom for the pursuit of happiness means?
Or is that one interpretation on freedom for the persuit of happiness?
Pursuit of happiness at what cost????????????
Posted by Estella on May 10, 2006, at 1:58:24
In reply to yeah » gardenergirl, posted by wildcardII on May 9, 2006, at 13:02:55
> ~i often wonder how that 10% can spend so much on things when so many are suffering???????????
Sigh.
Well...
To be fair...
I manage to waste money quite nicely on coffee and concerts and movies and clothes etc etc etc...
When I could sponsor a starving child with that money.
Why do I do that?
Because sometimes I think we are under an illusion of what we "need" to be human...
Because out of sight out of mind as the saying goes.
IMHO redistribution of wealth...
Is about redistributive taxation.
I know the USA has that already...
But IMHO it isn't fixing the situation (because there is still a radical imbalance)
Why isn't it working?
Probably because (not sure if I get these the right way around) But probably because tax 'avoidance' is illegal (that is avoiding paying your taxes) wheras tax 'evasion' is not illegal (and you just need the money to hire a good tax lawyer to shuffle stuff around within the company and take advantages of family trusts and charitable trusts and donations and things like that to 'evade' paying your taxes).
If you have money... Easy enough to keep / make money...
And thus the middle class tend to be hit the hardest on their taxes. While those wealthy ones... They manage to 'evade' paying their taxes (if i got those around the wrong way then i apologise - genuine error).
And the rich get richer...
And the middle class aspire to be rich...
And the middle class think the lower classes are threatening their lifestyle, their way of life, when really IMHO it is the upper classes who manage to keep the middle class under their thumb whereas if the middle class and the lower class united...
And IMHO politicians should be on an 'average' salary.
Why?
Because they are supposed to be civil servants.
They are supposed to be serving *you* hence representing the common man.
Posted by Sobriquet Style on May 10, 2006, at 5:30:22
In reply to Re: Estella » Sobriquet Style, posted by Estella on May 10, 2006, at 1:43:12
That caught my eye too with the number of billionaires, although 249 is a very small number of individuals compared to the American population as a whole, it is still a very big number compared to other countries internationally. Also, 'millionaires' are quite common these days not only in America, but becoming more common in other countries too, give or take the currency exchange rate, but whos counting when you have that much!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Millionaire
>but my understanding is that the USA has the biggest imbalance in the distribution of wealth (from within the country) in the developed world.
I think you're right, although I could be wrong too, but i've heard that you can live a very comfortable life if you do well in America - financially/materially - but if you don't and you're poor, then, you're *poor* bigtime. Although this is the case in other develped countries, I've heard that it is a more pronouced case in America, in black and white extream terms. Of course there is a middle ground inbetween though.
One important factor to take into account is the *individuals* who become milionaires or more rare - billionaires. Eg. How did they obtain their wealth? Right from millionaires made over night weekly from lottery's, to rags from riches business people who started off right on the poverty scale and worked their way up, right time, right place, motivation to get there etc, and just a *little* touch of luck! Some can be said, to be described ruthless and cunning in some repsects of business and getting what they want and how they get it. (I'm not syaing they all are, or even if they are, to keep things civil, for the rules :)You may find details of some of those rich here.
http://www.answers.com/topic/list-of-billionaires
http://www.forbes.com/forbes400/
There is a man called Nicholas van Hoogstraten who was/is thought to be worth about 500 million in Great Britain, he has been linked with murder and has a close relationship, who is speaks highly of, Zimbabwean - President Robert Mugabe. I'm sure you've heard of him, but if not, he's worth a google if you haven't.
Then there are millionaires/billionaires made through the illegal drug trade which is thought to be worth hundreds of billionaires of dollars, ranking close to oil internationally. These people won't be published to openly though.. If the drugs were made legal, I think they would compete fairly well with pharm (legal) drug companies, unless of course those companies took over the illegal drug business..
Finally you have well-known wealthy people who are very generous with their wealth setting up charities and ways to fund poor countries and help the extream poor people of the world.
One thing worth mentioning as well, which is very important IMHO, is how much you value, not wealth of money status, but your wealth of happiness. If you had to choose between happiness or money, I'd choose both! Seriously, if it was a choice, either or, happiness would be more important to me personally. I say this because of a recent study whereby Americans suffer from a high scale of illness compared to the UK, and for reasons which some are unknown.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060502/ap_on_he_me/sick_america
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4965034.stm
Notice too, that from the other link above, of the poorest countries in Africa, and ranked 13th as the poorest in the world, it may have the percentage of the highest wealth of happiness..
http://imomus.livejournal.com/188921.html
All in all, theres a yin to every yang...
~
Posted by Estella on May 10, 2006, at 6:28:27
In reply to Re: Estella » Estella, posted by Sobriquet Style on May 10, 2006, at 5:30:22
> That caught my eye too with the number of billionaires, although 249 is a very small number of individuals compared to the American population as a whole, it is still a very big number compared to other countries internationally.
Yes. And it is the top 10% that has over half the wealth of the whole country... Those people average something like 14 million in wealth (which is thought to be a more accurate assessment than net worth because some individuals come up in negative wealth because of huge debt). Those people could be taxed so that they would still be in the top 10% and there could still be the current hierarcy within that to 10% and yet... Bobby wouldn't have to worry about benefits to his descendants. There could be a good quality of free healthcare... housing... education... housing... for all citizens of the usa. you know... the minimum wage could even be raised so that it would be possible to meet ones basic needs and the basic needs of you and your dependent family...
> i've heard that you can live a very comfortable life if you do well in America - financially/materially -
yes. the american dream... especially given the exchange rate. i mean... imagine being a billionare in NYC. i can just see the inner city apartment. the limos... the plays and shows... the lifestyle... or in california... a hollywood mansion or too... maybe a holiday home on the developed side of some third world tropical island...
> but if you don't and you're poor, then, you're *poor* bigtime.
yes. with minimal welfare and free healthcare etc.
> Although this is the case in other develped countries, I've heard that it is a more pronouced case in America, in black and white extream terms.
yes. i think the welfare system... and the absense of good quality free healthcare and education and housing comes into play...
> One important factor to take into account is the *individuals* who become milionaires or more rare - billionaires.
is that relevant to the fact that 10% of the country have over half the wealth of the whole country? I mean... are those people *that much* more deserving than joe the illegal immigrant busting his balls for less than minimum wage so he can send his money home to mexico to look after his family 'cause there isn't enough work in mexico? and mexico aside... how about tom busting his balls working for minimum wage in some non tippable job doing a 14 or 18 hour day so he and his family can live in some tenemant as working poor? are these men less worthy or less deserving than anyone in the top 10%?
how about their wives?
how about their children?IMHO
people were created equal (in the sense of being equally deserving or equally entitled to a reasonable standard of life)
and so when there is such an imbalance in wealth... when people are supposedly equal in the above mentioned respects... then isn't something going wrong? and shouldn't steps be taken to remidy the situation?
> Eg. How did they obtain their wealth? Right from millionaires made over night weekly from lottery's, to rags from riches business people who started off right on the poverty scale and worked their way up, right time, right place, motivation to get there etc, and just a *little* touch of luck!
IMHO more than a little luck is involved... More than a little... IMHO those cases of people 'working their way up' they happen just enough... and are publicised one hell of a lot so that... it supports peoples belief that anyone can make it so long as they are hardworking enough... so that people keep struggling and keep believing that it is possible for them and their descendents if only they keep working hard... and when people devote their lives to trying to become one of the millionares / billionares via slogging their guts out... via buying the odd lotto ticket just in case they can manage to strike it lucky... then the focus is on preserving the radical imbalance and longing to be part of the elite rather than thinking that maybe the whole system needs a radical overhaul and maybe forgoing the 'opportunities' of becoming one of the elite especially when the cost to others of ones own 'opportunity' is so high...
> You may find details of some of those rich here.
i'm not interested...
i don't aspire to be...
i'm more interested on looking to the poor and disadvantaged and trying to figure out how to help them.
the wealthy...
why help the rich get richer?
why buy the magazines to learn about who paris is f*cking now?
even the charitable donations... how many are done under the advice of a tax consultant?
i don't want to preserve the status quo...> Notice too, that from the other link above, of the poorest countries in Africa, and ranked 13th as the poorest in the world, it may have the percentage of the highest wealth of happiness..
right. though how much harder to be happy when you are starving...
i think there is something to be said for pursuit of contentment rather than pursuit of happiness via material possessions / accumulation of wealth.
studies have shown that despite what people are inclined to think...
the more choices one has...
the less likely one is to be satisfied with the choice one actually makes...
too many choices... can lead to a decrease in happiness...
Go forward in thread:
Psycho-Babble Politics | Extras | FAQ
Dr. Bob is Robert Hsiung, MD,
bob@dr-bob.org
Script revised: February 4, 2008
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/cgi-bin/pb/mget.pl
Copyright 2006-17 Robert Hsiung.
Owned and operated by Dr. Bob LLC and not the University of Chicago.