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Posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:23:37
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And don't show mercy like you did with Larry et al. I had my one PBC chance. If *I* don't know better, who does?
I know I will regret it when I cool off but it seems worth it this second.
Sorry and thank you. -- 10der
Posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:29:02
In reply to Dr. Bob, Block please, before thread is deleted, posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:23:37
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20130807/msgs/1048932.html
Posted by Moishe Pipik on August 13, 2013, at 15:37:57
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, Block please, before thread is deleted, posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:29:02
You spoke your mind. I see nothing wrong with that.
Posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:58:47
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, Block please, before thread is deleted, posted by Moishe Pipik on August 13, 2013, at 15:37:57
I do.
It violates the rules here, which I believe in and helped enforce for years. Not fond of being a hypocrite.
Far more importantly, it violates my Christian beliefs, and I even did it purposely.
Choosing to sin because it feels good at the time, or any other excuses, is serious to me.
But thanks anyway....I think.
Posted by Moishe Pipik on August 13, 2013, at 16:09:37
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, Block please, before thread is deleted » Moishe Pipik, posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:58:47
I was just saying to give yourself a effin break. Shooting to be perfect is the perfect recipe for failure and self-loathing, and your response seems to bear that out. WWJD?
I've found that if I don't try so hard, I can actually do BETTER with moods and behavior, whereas beating myself up doesn't facilitate that.
Posted by Moishe Pipik on August 13, 2013, at 16:12:41
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, Block please, before thread is deleted, posted by Moishe Pipik on August 13, 2013, at 16:09:37
"A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines"
It applies rather well to many aspects of PB, if you think about it.
Posted by Phillipa on August 13, 2013, at 16:36:02
In reply to Dr. Bob, Block please, before thread is deleted, posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:23:37
Honestly I see nothing wrong with your reply? Why are you beating yourself up? When I've notified admin via the report button. A Lot of them were not better than your and most likely worse. Phillipa
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 13, 2013, at 19:13:33
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, Block please, before thread is deleted » Moishe Pipik, posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 15:58:47
> And don't show mercy ... If *I* don't know better, who does?
>
> I know I will regret it when I cool off but it seems worth it this second.
>
> Sorry and thank you.> It violates the rules here, which I believe in and helped enforce for years. Not fond of being a hypocrite.
>
> Far more importantly, it violates my Christian beliefs, and I even did it purposely.
>
> Choosing to sin because it feels good at the time, or any other excuses, is serious to me.I choose mercy. :-)
I don't think you were a hypocrite. You were willing to accept the consequences. Have you cooled off now? Would you consider an apology?
I agree, choosing to sin is serious. Would you be willing to reflect on that experience?
Bob
PS: I can't help thinking you seem less "demanding of careful handling" than before.
Posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 22:41:34
In reply to Re: choosing to sin, posted by Dr. Bob on August 13, 2013, at 19:13:33
>>Have you cooled off now? Would you consider an apology?
No, and absolutely not. I am not sorry for what I said to that person. Maybe someday I will be...
I don't want to discuss sin with you. Especially my sins.
Your PS means nothing to me. You must catalog posts like Lou and then go back to them, assuming we remember these priors threads/posts. I don't know the context of that, and I'm afraid you might tell me. If you are trying to provoke me to more uncivil posts, engage me in one of your cryptic, maddening exchanges and you will get your wish.
Please block me instead. I HATE that you won't even enforce the civility rules the way I did, my fellow deputies did, and you did at one time. It's awful.
Posted by alexandra_k on August 14, 2013, at 22:18:30
In reply to Re: choosing to sin » Dr. Bob, posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 22:41:34
> Please block me instead. I HATE that you won't even enforce the civility rules the way I did, my fellow deputies did, and you did at one time. It's awful.
((((((((10)))))))))
What I most remember about you is how freaked you were when I returned after going AWOL that time... I was so deeply touched that you cared. And sorry to have scared you...
I wish I could take you away from here. Give you a holiday. Over on social... Or psychology maybe.
Come Babble with us...
Where do you live? Do you like it? There are different degrees of 'dream' but... If you could live anywhere what would your dream be??
Posted by ed_uk2010 on August 18, 2013, at 6:56:59
In reply to Re: choosing to sin » Dr. Bob, posted by 10derheart on August 13, 2013, at 22:41:34
>you won't even enforce the civility rules the way I did, my fellow deputies did, and you did at one time.
On the subject of deputies... Are there any deputies at the moment?
Posted by 10derheart on August 18, 2013, at 12:31:13
In reply to Deputies » 10derheart, posted by ed_uk2010 on August 18, 2013, at 6:56:59
Hi ed,
Just Racer, but she rarely, rarely ever acts/posts.
Posted by ed_uk2010 on August 18, 2013, at 16:24:36
In reply to Re: Deputies » ed_uk2010, posted by 10derheart on August 18, 2013, at 12:31:13
> Hi ed,
>
> Just Racer, but she rarely, rarely ever acts/posts.Thanks 10der.
Posted by Phillipa on August 18, 2013, at 20:44:45
In reply to Re: Deputies » ed_uk2010, posted by 10derheart on August 18, 2013, at 12:31:13
I know the name is there. But I've not seen her in years. Phillipa
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 20, 2013, at 10:35:37
In reply to Re: Deputies » 10derheart, posted by Phillipa on August 18, 2013, at 20:44:45
> I've not seen her in years.
uncouth and I had a nice dinner with her in San Francisco just a couple months ago.
Bob
Posted by Willful on August 20, 2013, at 12:57:53
In reply to Re: Deputies, posted by Dr. Bob on August 20, 2013, at 10:35:37
So.. uncouth is ex- Racer?
Gosh, she sounds like a soulmate.
Willful
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