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i don't care anymore. my brother just died

Posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

kind of puts things in perspective. babble doesn't matter.. the pain doesn't matter.. none of this matters at all really. don't care about dr bob and the drama.. i just don't care anymore

 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008

Posted by fayeroe on March 13, 2008, at 21:34:38

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

I'm sorry. Pat

 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008

Posted by obsidian on March 13, 2008, at 21:40:59

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

oh, I am so very, very sorry :-(

(((((((((((((((((((you))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I wish you some comfort through this time,
sid

 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008

Posted by Dinah on March 13, 2008, at 22:17:37

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

I'm so sorry, Star.

Please take care of yourself.

 

thank you my big brother is gone just like that (nm)

Posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 23:21:20

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

 

Re: thank you my big brother is gone just like that

Posted by I need a hug on March 14, 2008, at 0:45:23

In reply to thank you my big brother is gone just like that (nm), posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 23:21:20

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. (((((STAR)))))

 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008

Posted by SLS on March 14, 2008, at 5:18:29

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

> kind of puts things in perspective. babble doesn't matter.. the pain doesn't matter.. none of this matters at all really. don't care about dr bob and the drama.. i just don't care anymore

I'm sorry.

The grieving process for such a loss can be lengthy. You very likely will never fully accept it. If PB has been helpful to you in the past with the wonderful support the community offers, I hope you don't stay away for too long. You have the right to feel everything that you are going through. Anger is a healthy thing.

The stages of grief are suggested to be:

Shock -> Denial -> Anger -> Bargaining > Depression -> Acceptance

This process is not necessarily linear. You can find yourself hopping back and forth among the stages as you head towards acceptance. How you process your loss is to be unique. There are no scripts to follow.


- Scott


 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008

Posted by gardenergirl on March 14, 2008, at 8:19:21

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

What a terrible shock. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

gg

 

Re: thank you my big brother is gone just like th

Posted by ClearSkies on March 14, 2008, at 9:30:57

In reply to thank you my big brother is gone just like that (nm), posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 23:21:20

I'm so sorry.
ClearSkies

 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008

Posted by rskontos on March 14, 2008, at 11:19:33

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

Star, I am so sorry you just lost your big brother. I hope you can take care of yourself and find some comfort somewhere if you can't here....

((((((Star)))))))

rsk

ps. Let me know if I can help

 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008

Posted by karen_kay on March 14, 2008, at 11:24:04

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34

please take very good care fo yourself. i can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. if you need anything, please don't hesitate to let me know.

kk

 

Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died

Posted by Phillipa on March 14, 2008, at 12:09:54

In reply to Re: i don't care anymore. my brother just died » star008, posted by karen_kay on March 14, 2008, at 11:24:04

Oh Star I'm so sorry. Love Phillipa

 

how awful, star. I am so sorry for your loss (nm) » star008

Posted by 10derHeart on March 14, 2008, at 16:13:25

In reply to i don't care anymore. my brother just died, posted by star008 on March 13, 2008, at 21:33:34


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