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Posted by Deneb on September 30, 2006, at 16:48:51
Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more than other people.
(I think this is admin related because it's about interactions with the administrator.)
Maybe I'm just imagining it because I want so much attention from him it's never enough. I get a little upset when he says, "Hey" to other people in chat, but not to me. Sometimes I talk about Dr. Bob in chat like he's not there. I wonder if it bothers Dr. Bob? Mostly it is asking why Dr. Bob is ignoring me or something like that.
Dr. Bob doesn't ignore all my posts. He mostly answers questions that are admin related, but I notice that sometimes he acts social towards other people. I dunno. I think sometimes that Dr. Bob does this because I love him and stuff. Maybe he is extra careful around me to make sure we don't develop any type of relationship.
What do you think about this? Is it possible that Dr. Bob treats me differently? Or is it all in my head?
Deneb*
Posted by muffled on September 30, 2006, at 17:08:53
In reply to Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more, posted by Deneb on September 30, 2006, at 16:48:51
awwwwwww Deneb.
Mebbe he is a little intimidated by you?
But I don't think he ignores you.
But I think your right, that mebbe he's ok. Maybe.
His comments were for the most part general.
Or answers to questions.
But I dunno.
I alot dense bout peoplke LOTSA times.
So I don't even know why I post bout this cept that I care bout you Deneb.
Thats all.
Muffled
Posted by Deneb on September 30, 2006, at 22:21:38
In reply to Re: Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more » Deneb, posted by muffled on September 30, 2006, at 17:08:53
I noticed something strange today. I think I'm intimidated by Bob.
Dr. Bob asked me a question and I got frightened. I was afraid I wouldn't give an intelligent and thoughtful answer. I think it went all right, but it was a little scary.
I'm not used to Dr. Bob asking me questions. I'm used to asking him anything I want and him not answering. Real interaction with Bob is a little scary for me.
Deneb*
Posted by Deneb on October 1, 2006, at 3:12:00
In reply to Re: I think Dr. Bob intimidates me, posted by Deneb on September 30, 2006, at 22:21:38
Controlled interaction is okay. :-)
I love Bob. Bob cares.
Deneb*
Posted by muffled on October 1, 2006, at 10:55:57
In reply to Re: I love Bob, posted by Deneb on October 1, 2006, at 3:12:00
Course he cares Deneb, you a sweetie :-)
Your remembering to keep a handle on boblove right?
ENJOY! but remember whats real too?
It was SO sweet seeing you guys chat!
:-)
I was smiling SO hard :-)
Thanks for the smiles Deneb.
Muffled
Posted by notfred on October 1, 2006, at 16:39:29
In reply to Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more, posted by Deneb on September 30, 2006, at 16:48:51
I wonder how it feels to be to object of someones
obsession ?
Posted by Declan on October 1, 2006, at 17:11:35
In reply to Re: Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more, posted by notfred on October 1, 2006, at 16:39:29
Quite familiar?
Posted by Lindenblüte on October 1, 2006, at 23:11:08
In reply to Re: Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more » notfred, posted by Declan on October 1, 2006, at 17:11:35
Oh. I am very used to being the target of someone's obsession.
This person is just the right age. Tall, good looking. Has a great wit. Unfortunately, she lives inside my head and says mean things to me most of the time and plays me movies and slideshows and sings me songs I don't want to hear.
She's always trying to psychoanalyse me. Dammit!
Posted by Deneb on October 2, 2006, at 0:21:15
In reply to Re: I love Bob » Deneb, posted by muffled on October 1, 2006, at 10:55:57
> Course he cares Deneb, you a sweetie :-)
:-) At first I discovered that Bob doesn't want me dead, and then I discovered that Bob doesn't want me hurt, but now I've discovered that Bob cares if I'm hurt. :-) It makes me very happy to know he cares.
I'm going to remember it for as long as I live.
> Your remembering to keep a handle on boblove right?
> ENJOY! but remember whats real too?I will try to remember what is real. Bob is just a nice guy, he's not my friend or anything because we don't share much. I just happen to really like Bob.
> It was SO sweet seeing you guys chat!
> :-)
> I was smiling SO hard :-)
> Thanks for the smiles Deneb.
> Muffled:-) I was smiling after a bit too.
Deneb*
Posted by Racer on October 2, 2006, at 22:15:23
In reply to Re: Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more, posted by notfred on October 1, 2006, at 16:39:29
> I wonder how it feels to be to object of someones
> obsession ?If you'd like, I could be obsessed with you?
;-)
Having been the target of a couple of obsessions -- mostly in real life, some shortish term online experiences, though, too -- it's not comfortable. In the case of the real life experiences -- well, the only answer is very frightening. It wasn't fun, and I hope that it never happens again. It turned quickly into a situation in which I could NEVER feel as though I could let my guard down, at all, ever. Sleep was not easy, and showering got complicated. (For a while, I had to have someone come over and stand outside the door, I was so frightened.)
Online, it was easier in a lot of ways. One of the online stalkers, though, got my home address and telephone number, and my work information. THAT was scary. The other online obsessives, though, were mostly just annoying. Mind you, because I'd experienced the real life stuff, that added to the difficulties of the online experience. Mostly worrying that someone was going to show up on my doorstep...
Posted by Deneb on October 2, 2006, at 22:29:51
In reply to Re: Sometimes I feel like Dr. Bob ignores me more » notfred, posted by Racer on October 2, 2006, at 22:15:23
> Having been the target of a couple of obsessions -- mostly in real life, some shortish term online experiences, though, too -- it's not comfortable.
Do you think I make Dr. Bob uncomfortable? He said, "It's fine" that I love him. I don't e-mail him now. I just post about him once in a while. Other than posting about my love and going into chat when I see Bob there I don't bother Bob.
> In the case of the real life experiences -- well, the only answer is very frightening.
Was the person stalking you? How were you able to stop the person?
Deneb*
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