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Posted by Deneb on June 13, 2006, at 17:49:28
Not jealous...just wishing
Dr. Bob, you sure replied to Muffled a lot. I wish you would reply to me a lot too.
I can never have enough Bob attention. lol
Dr. Bob, are you more likely to reply to people who are upset with you?
Dr. Bob, do you think you are unconsciously avoiding me because I'm infatuated with you and you don't want to make it worse?
I hope not.
Dr. Bob, do you get annoyed that I keep asking you questions I know won't be answered? LOL
(((((((((((Dr. Bob))))))))))))
You don't have to answer. I just like asking the questions.
I don't think you're avoiding me, but I do think you give certain people here more attention than others. I'm not one of those people, at least I think I'm not.
Deneb*
Posted by muffled on June 13, 2006, at 22:41:55
In reply to Dr. Bob, I'm not jealous...just wishing, posted by Deneb on June 13, 2006, at 17:49:28
Deneb,
He ignores me PLENTY.
Just it suits him, at the moment, to toy with me I suppose.
I'm not overly fond of Bob.
He annoys me.
I know you think he's wonderful, and I'm sure he has many wonderful attributes.
SO YOU CAN HAVE HIM !!! He's all yours! LOL !
I do enjoy many of your posts Deneb.
I hope you don't let Bob hurt you.
Take care,
Muffled
Posted by Deneb on June 13, 2006, at 23:12:22
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, I'm not jealous...just wishing » Deneb, posted by muffled on June 13, 2006, at 22:41:55
> Deneb,
> He ignores me PLENTY.Hmmmm...
I think I'm only seeing some things and not other things.> I'm not overly fond of Bob.
> He annoys me.I think Dr. Bob annoys some people. My love must be blind because he doesn't annoy me! LOL
> I know you think he's wonderful, and I'm sure he has many wonderful attributes.
> SO YOU CAN HAVE HIM !!! He's all yours! LOL !Really? Thanks! LOL
> I do enjoy many of your posts Deneb.
> I hope you don't let Bob hurt you.
> Take care,
> MuffledBob can hurt me with his blocks, but I'm planning on never getting blocked again. I'm pretty much okay with him ignoring my questions, as long as I'm free to ask him questions and write to him. Part of why blocks are so devastating to me is because I can't write to Dr. Bob anymore unless I e-mail him. I don't want to harass Bob with my e-mails, but I can't help it sometimes. I want him to read my messages.
On the boards I feel like he's reading all my messages, even if he doesn't really. I'm not sure why it's so important that I feel like he's reading my posts.
Deneb*
Posted by Larry Hoover on June 14, 2006, at 9:56:29
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, I'm not jealous...just wishing » muffled, posted by Deneb on June 13, 2006, at 23:12:22
> I think I'm only seeing some things and not other things.
It's not not seeing. It's not noticing. (Remember my data collection suggestion? It forces you to notice.)
> I think Dr. Bob annoys some people. My love must be blind because he doesn't annoy me! LOL
Love *is* blind. Anything else isn't love.
Lar
Posted by AuntieMel on June 14, 2006, at 12:12:30
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, I'm not jealous...just wishing » Deneb, posted by Larry Hoover on June 14, 2006, at 9:56:29
Or people like me would have never reproduced.
Posted by Deneb on June 14, 2006, at 17:41:27
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, I'm not jealous...just wishing » muffled, posted by Deneb on June 13, 2006, at 23:12:22
People don't plan on getting blocked, but they still do.
I don't plan on getting blocked, but I still might.
After some thought and a friend's input, I'm not sure I can remain block free.
I'm not sure I will understand the reason for my block.
I think a block from Dr. Bob will feel 100 times worse than average because I love him.
Bob can hurt me Muffled. Bob can hurt me a lot. Dr. Bob, do you want to hurt me when you block me?
There's only so much I can do to prevent a block. People don't plan on getting blocked, but they still do.
The only way I can prevent myself from being blocked is to not post at all. I can't do that, so there will always be a risk.
I'm doing the best I can. I hope it's enough.
Deneb
Posted by sleepygirl on June 14, 2006, at 20:37:28
In reply to False sense of security, posted by Deneb on June 14, 2006, at 17:41:27
the higher you reach toward someone on a pedestal, the higher you have to fall yourself
meaning??...heck I don't know
Dr. Bob has to maintain an equitable approach toward everyone regardless of how they may feel..
I don't want you to get too hurt :-(
We always get hurt more by the ones we care about. If they didn't matter we wouldn't care.
I doubt Dr. Bob wants to hurt you, why would he want to hurt you?
Posted by muffled on June 15, 2006, at 9:38:24
In reply to False sense of security, posted by Deneb on June 14, 2006, at 17:41:27
Posted by Deneb on June 15, 2006, at 13:07:07
In reply to Re: False sense of security » Deneb, posted by sleepygirl on June 14, 2006, at 20:37:28
> Dr. Bob has to maintain an equitable approach toward everyone regardless of how they may feel..
I know. I wouldn't want it any other way. I'm just saying that I would be upset if I got blocked. I'm not trying to convince Bob not to block me by writing about how upset I would be. I know writing about it makes no difference. Believe me, I know. LOL I've written things to him that you wouldn't believe. No, actually, considering my history, maybe you can believe it. Anyways, he's never budged, no matter what I wrote. It's probably a good thing he never responded. It makes me feel less bad afterwards, you know, like when I'm sane again?
> I don't want you to get too hurt :-(
> We always get hurt more by the ones we care about. If they didn't matter we wouldn't care.
> I doubt Dr. Bob wants to hurt you, why would he want to hurt you?I know Dr. Bob doesn't want to hurt me. He proved this when he hugged me. :-) I know Dr. Bob has to block me if I'm uncivil. That's the fair thing to do. I want him to be fair. It makes the rules easier to understand. Sometimes there is inconsistency and that's unnerving. I realize that sometimes, despite trying our best, we may still get blocked.
Deneb*
Posted by Deneb on June 15, 2006, at 14:47:23
In reply to Re: False sense of security » sleepygirl, posted by Deneb on June 15, 2006, at 13:07:07
I love you this much! (arms stretched out to the max)
(((((((((((((Dr. Bob))))))))))))))
I want to see you again some day. You don't mind, do you? I wasn't a scary stalker person in real life was I?
Have there been other posters who love you? Am I alone?
I can't believe I met you! I saw you in real life!
You know what would be my fantasy Dr. Bob? My fantasy would be to see you in real life doing your administrative duties. I want to see you in real life typing on the keyboard to your computer. I would be ecstatic if I could see you do that. That would connect the online Dr. Bob with the real life Dr. Bob.
I felt like I didn't love you quite as much in person as online. You're more intimidating in real life. You're much bigger than me physically. LOL I know I'm just short. You're normal.
You're so *normal* in real life! You're like a normal guy walking down the street. You interact like a normal person. You're not very talkative, but you're still normal. I on the other hand was weird, no? Just tell me the truth, I was weird.
How long have I been in love with you now? Several months I think. I don't think it's ever going to end. Hehehe. You're stuck with Deneb love. I hope my love makes you feel better.
Deneb*
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