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Re: blocking question****Trigger**** » Deneb

Posted by special_k on March 23, 2006, at 22:32:43

In reply to Re: blocking question****Trigger****, posted by Deneb on March 23, 2006, at 22:28:43


> :-( Talking about this is making me upset.

:-(
me too

> I don't know if I'm ever going to get over that experience of getting blocked, especially the first time. I'm being a cry baby. :-

:-(
me too

> I think to get over it I need Dr. Bob to tell me he doesn't want me hurt, many times.

i don't think that will help.

why?

cause he has said it before... a few times already. after a while the 'magic words' wear off

:-(

but i in a bad mood sorry

 

spec-k you grumpy???? (nm) » special_k

Posted by muffled on March 23, 2006, at 22:35:55

In reply to Re: blocking question****Trigger**** » Deneb, posted by special_k on March 23, 2006, at 22:32:43

 

Re: blocking question****Trigger**** » Deneb

Posted by justyourlaugh on March 23, 2006, at 23:11:44

In reply to Re: blocking question****Trigger****, posted by Deneb on March 23, 2006, at 22:28:43

d..
the first " please dont think i hate you" but you are blocked. was the first of its kind...to you..
it was special....
..
i asked for something small..so small..no one would even notice.but i.
they have no idea how it cut me...i read that post every day..it was not horrid enough..
i am not hurt enough..
tread killer i am because i have been tarnished..
trashed and tossed..

 

Tossed? » justyourlaugh

Posted by muffled on March 23, 2006, at 23:17:48

In reply to Re: blocking question****Trigger**** » Deneb, posted by justyourlaugh on March 23, 2006, at 23:11:44

i asked for something small..so small..no one would even notice.but i.
they have no idea how it cut me...i read that post every day..it was not horrid enough..
i am not hurt enough..
tread killer i am because i have been tarnished..
trashed and tossed..


***what was that referring to? Something D. said or how you feel? Either way its sad. :-(
All are welcome here (as long as they civil!! Heh, heh!!!!)
Hope alls well Jyl?
Muffled

 

Re: blocking question

Posted by Deneb on March 23, 2006, at 23:30:03

In reply to Re: blocking question****Trigger**** » Deneb, posted by justyourlaugh on March 23, 2006, at 23:11:44

> d..
> the first " please dont think i hate you" but you are blocked. was the first of its kind...to you..
> it was special....

Yeah, it was special, but I guess someone had to be first.

> ..
> i asked for something small..so small..no one would even notice.but i.
> they have no idea how it cut me...i read that post every day..it was not horrid enough..
> i am not hurt enough..
> tread killer i am because i have been tarnished..
> trashed and tossed..

I'm sorry, I'm not sure I understand you. You made a request and it wasn't met?

(((((jyl)))))

Deneb*

 

Re: blocking question

Posted by justyourlaugh on March 23, 2006, at 23:40:42

In reply to Re: blocking question, posted by Deneb on March 23, 2006, at 23:30:03

..
i asked for a post to be deleted..it was well in my right..and in the "rules"..but..it was viewed not "grossly" enough..
i can not paste it to you..
but i read it daily.

 

Re: blocking question

Posted by muffled on March 23, 2006, at 23:54:17

In reply to Re: blocking question, posted by justyourlaugh on March 23, 2006, at 23:40:42

Dunno the post. Sorry it bothers you. Is it an old one?
Why do you keep reading it? Can you somehow stop reading it? Would it be wrong of me, or triggering to ask why its bad? Sometimes I'm rather stupid. Sorry. Just wanted you to feel better. Everyone says stuff they wished they hadn't :-(
LOTS of us on babble I expect.....
(((((((((((((jyl)))))))))))))
Muffled

 

Re: blocking question

Posted by justyourlaugh on March 24, 2006, at 0:05:36

In reply to Re: blocking question, posted by Deneb on March 23, 2006, at 23:30:03

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Re: (((JYL and Phillipa)))
Posted by James K on February 5, 2006, at 3:04:56

In reply to Re: (((JYL and Phillipa))), posted by Phillipa on February 4, 2006, at 11:04:21

Phillipa is one of the nicest persons I've ever run into. I care about you even though I've never met you.

[xxx], You are the first person to f*ck with me on the internet. You can go straight to hell. Do you know what I mean? I mean go right into the ugly part of your tiny brain and tear yourself into little shreads. You made a mistake and attacked somebody, and when she came here for support,we supported her here. The fact that some people used to know you means nothing. When I turned on my computer and saw you had called me out, adrenaline went through my whole body. Maybe you felt the same way when you came on the boards. Good. So, I say right here and now, If you are lurking around seeing the effect you had. Here is the effect. It bothered me. irl, I would swat you like a bug. Here's my email. [xxx]. Here is my address [xxx]. Here is my phone number [xxx]. Take a drive, take a flight. There are 2 Starbucks on my corner. I hate you as much as I've ever hated anyone in my life. I hate you right now more than I hate myself. Eat sh*t. I bet you remember what it tastes like. It's metallic, like blood but more smell.

Smoke some pot, drink a drink, contact me. I think we could be good for each other. I hate you. I know that is all about me. for me it is all about you.

Thank you for your fond consideration in this matter,
James [K]


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Re: blocking question » justyourlaugh

Posted by Dinah on March 24, 2006, at 0:10:40

In reply to Re: blocking question, posted by justyourlaugh on March 24, 2006, at 0:05:36

Ah, jyl, I'm so sorry.

 

Re: blocking question » justyourlaugh

Posted by muffled on March 24, 2006, at 0:31:39

In reply to Re: blocking question, posted by justyourlaugh on March 24, 2006, at 0:05:36

That was ugly your right.
I think mebbe JamesK was just venting over himself, he has alot of rage inside, unfortunately you got caught in it.
Sometimes people get all caught up and others get lost in the cracks. Sucks.
Sorry you got hurt jyl. I think that post should be removed, on a variety of levels.
Try and look at the good posts. Come in and get involved in some fun stuff.
Sorry :-(
Muffled

 

Re: blocking question » justyourlaugh

Posted by AuntieMel on March 24, 2006, at 8:34:31

In reply to Re: blocking question, posted by justyourlaugh on March 24, 2006, at 0:05:36

I bet he would like it deleted, too. It has all his personal information in it...

James was PWD (Posting while drunk) - something he did a lot of, unfortunately. He's also finally checked himself in to rehab.

I'm sure it wasn't personal. But I'm also sure it hurt a lot. Hugs to you.

 

Re: blocking question » AuntieMel

Posted by ClearSkies on March 24, 2006, at 9:21:27

In reply to Re: blocking question » justyourlaugh, posted by AuntieMel on March 24, 2006, at 8:34:31

I have a question about this PWD.
If people say hurtful things while in this state, is that not uncivil? How is it Supportive and Educational to post mean things?
In my understanding, this type of behaviour would be deemed harassment, or perhaps even abusive.

Wanting hurtful words to be deleted is one, and the most important, issue. For me another issue is - was this post deemed civil? Did I miss something on this thread (probably, I miss a lot here) - did the poster actually *get* a PBC for this?

It makes me feel uneasy.

ClearSkies

 

Sorry-JYL

Posted by muffled on March 24, 2006, at 9:44:24

In reply to Re: blocking question » AuntieMel, posted by ClearSkies on March 24, 2006, at 9:21:27

Ugh. I went back to that post. :-(
Its sorta like a traffic accident, you know you shouldn't look, but you can't help yourself. Sh*t.
One thing I noticed is I saw Gardener Girl give you a hug, and I sent one to James too. I understood his raging, irrational though it was, but I didn't send you one. I should have done that and I'm sorry. I think I was just so shocked I wasn't sure what I was doing. And I see it would seem he only got a PBC. ???????????????????????????????????? Now THAT I don't understand at all????????????????????????????????????
I say f*rt and get blocked for a week and James flips and propl was PWD and he gets a PBC???????????? Don't get it. Don't get that at all. Maybe there was more later. I dunno. I had to get out of there...........
I'm so, so sorry your were hurt like thast. Noone deserves that. And I'm sorry I was so stupid and didn't send you a hug, dunno if you accept them? But I will send one now with my apologies and you can take it or leave it.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Justyourlaugh)))))))))))))))))))))
Please take care........
Muffled

 

Ya can anyone explain this, Bob?

Posted by muffled on March 24, 2006, at 9:48:05

In reply to Re: blocking question » AuntieMel, posted by ClearSkies on March 24, 2006, at 9:21:27

Whats up with the PBC? Or mebbe I missed something.
You must get tired of my whining.
I hate to see people hurt.
I expect you do too Bob.
Life is so awfully confusing to me.
People get hurt too much.
:-(
Muffly

 

Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob?

Posted by gardenergirl on March 24, 2006, at 10:10:59

In reply to Ya can anyone explain this, Bob?, posted by muffled on March 24, 2006, at 9:48:05

I sort of remember this, and I remember feeling that a PBC seemed out of proportion to the hurt that jyl likely felt. But I believe it was a first time thing for JamesK. He'd not received a PBC before that, if I remember correctly.

I guess some folks get a great deal of "bang for their buck" with their first one. Shoot, all I did was f*rt. I was robbed! ;)

gg

 

Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » gardenergirl

Posted by justyourlaugh on March 24, 2006, at 10:18:46

In reply to Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob?, posted by gardenergirl on March 24, 2006, at 10:10:59

i didnt want him blocked..
i just wanted it deleted..with respect to us both.

 

Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » justyourlaugh

Posted by ClearSkies on March 24, 2006, at 11:00:06

In reply to Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » gardenergirl, posted by justyourlaugh on March 24, 2006, at 10:18:46

> i didnt want him blocked..
> i just wanted it deleted..with respect to us both.

Yes, just as my words were deleted out of respect to another poster. This is just as significant.

ClearSkies

 

Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » ClearSkies

Posted by AuntieMel on March 24, 2006, at 11:49:43

In reply to Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » justyourlaugh, posted by ClearSkies on March 24, 2006, at 11:00:06

I understand.

Your post had a couple of words deleted (edited out).

I don't feel like I have the authority to delete an entire post, or I would. And if I could figure out a way to delete *some* of the post, like yours, I would.

I think it should go away, too.

Now, if James were to ask to have it removed because if identifying information I have the authority to do that...

I'll send him an email and see if he'll request it.

 

Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob?

Posted by special_k on March 24, 2006, at 12:20:26

In reply to Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » ClearSkies, posted by AuntieMel on March 24, 2006, at 11:49:43

i read that imagining it was to me...

it was immensely hurtful :-(

i'm sure it is something he regrets.
and it sounds like something that continues to give you great pain.

i think it should be deleted.

i do.

yup.

i think the things said in it are that bad.

what is the problem dr bob?

matter of principle???

 

Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob?

Posted by special_k on March 24, 2006, at 12:32:59

In reply to Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob?, posted by special_k on March 24, 2006, at 12:20:26

you lost me bob
sorry but you did
last one was too much
i'm sorry :-(
i tried :-(
i really really trieed
but some things hurt too much :-(

 

Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » justyourlaugh

Posted by TofuEmmy on March 24, 2006, at 19:07:09

In reply to Re: Ya can anyone explain this, Bob? » gardenergirl, posted by justyourlaugh on March 24, 2006, at 10:18:46

I agree - it should be deleted. I never read it before today. IMO, it sounds menacing...and it would have scared the hooha outta me. Heck, seems like the first step towards Internet harrassment.

I'm glad he is getting help. He has a long road to haul. 28 days in rehab goes by quickly, and then there is a whole life to live.

em

 

Re: blocking question

Posted by James K on March 28, 2006, at 17:36:42

In reply to Re: blocking question » AuntieMel, posted by ClearSkies on March 24, 2006, at 9:21:27

I'm not in a position to answer e-mails right now. I am home for an evening while I transfer from an acute facility to a long term facility. I would love to have that post deleted for content both hateful and identifying.

It haunts me too. I had no idea it was as hurtful as I intended when I posted it. I am sorry. Hurting people is something I don't want to do anymore, and usually only happens when I am both ill and intoxicated.

I don't know if a DNP is in effect or not, but I don't have one out on anybody. This post is not to anybody in particular just in case.

I will be gone for a what should be a long while if the money and insurance work out. But when I return, I hope to be much healthier and that past events can be moved on from.

James K

 

Re: editing out identifying information

Posted by Dr. Bob on March 29, 2006, at 0:27:33

In reply to Re: blocking question, posted by James K on March 28, 2006, at 17:36:42

> I would love to have that post deleted for content both hateful and identifying.

I don't like to delete whole posts, but Dinah proposed what I think is a nice compromise, editing out identifying information, so I've done that.

I also hope you return healthier and we can move on. Best wishes,

Bob

 

Re: editing out identifying information » Dr. Bob

Posted by Dinah on March 29, 2006, at 10:43:07

In reply to Re: editing out identifying information, posted by Dr. Bob on March 29, 2006, at 0:27:33

Just for the record, since you brought my name into it, I actually said that I thought the post should be deleted, but if you weren't going to do that because it was against your policy, that perhaps the names could be deleted.

 

Re: editing out identifying information

Posted by Dr. Bob on April 4, 2006, at 11:50:35

In reply to Re: editing out identifying information » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on March 29, 2006, at 10:43:07

> Just for the record, since you brought my name into it, I actually said that I thought the post should be deleted, but if you weren't going to do that because it was against your policy, that perhaps the names could be deleted.

Fair enough, "proposed" may have overstated it. :-)

Bob


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