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Posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 8:06:04
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i'm going to lose babble, one of the things i care most about in the world and it's all my fault.
Posted by Slinky on February 12, 2004, at 8:50:34
In reply to -, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 8:06:04
This ain't like you Dinah..
Please email me if you need to.
...and it is NOT your fault sweetypie.
Posted by Phil on February 12, 2004, at 8:59:15
In reply to -, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 8:06:04
Dinah, I can't see where you have done anything wrong. I've obviously been on a rampage lately but I thought I had good intentions. I've never read a post of yours that made me feel you didn't have good intentions yourself.
Can we all just let this go, please? If I made you feel this way or brought up something that hurt you, I am sorry to the bottom of my heart.
My well intentioned post was ill timed and stirred up emotions between men and women and I wish I would have taken a nap instead of posting yesterday.
Dinah, you are way too good of a person with very good intentions and I admire you for what you have accomplished here.
I'll make you a deal, okay? I'll quit beating myself up if you'll quit beating yourself up.
I can tell you, I felt terrible at being misunderstood here and as I hurt some feelings, I also got hurt. Thank God Dr Bob has listened because I feel I said things out of pure pain that really has nothing to do with the board.
I guess we both got thrown off our horses. Can you and me get up, dust ourselves off and go to the saloon? I'll buy you a soady pop. Dr Bob can come if he agrees to be civil. I hear he's a wild man when he gets too much sugar. : )
ps...I hope your husband is grateful for you. If you think you're a bad housekeeper, you may not have trained him right. Tell him to vacuum while you, me and Bob go pop a top.
My post was way to emotional but I had to explode somewhere. I think it brought out anger rarely seen here and people said things they didn't mean. I have to forgive myself for my short comings which are out here for all to see.
You are one of God's children, we all are. We make mistakes, we hurt from things people say when they are hurt from something said to them, it's a viscious cycle that goes round and round.
I have an apology to make to Karen for something I said 5 minutes ago. I wonder if outsiders can tell this is a mental health board?
I'm not going to try and run my show any more. I'm turning it over to the only one who can really help me. I know he's a personal friend of yours. He just whispered in my ear that he loves us all but we need to take his entry exam over: Love & Forgiveness 101.
But for the grace of God...
Phil
Posted by Slinky on February 12, 2004, at 9:07:22
In reply to Re: - » Dinah, posted by Slinky on February 12, 2004, at 8:50:34
You also ain't losing Babble..
Babble as an entity just has a mood disorder
Posted by Phil on February 12, 2004, at 9:21:37
In reply to Re: - PS Dinah, posted by Slinky on February 12, 2004, at 9:07:22
Posted by gardenergirl on February 12, 2004, at 9:35:41
In reply to Re: - PS Dinah, posted by Slinky on February 12, 2004, at 9:07:22
Dinah,
There are so many people involved in this. There is no way it can be all your fault. Please take a deep breath and use your skills and wisdom to look at what you are saying to yourself. It's not true.(((((Dinah)))))
I know you are hurting right now. Can you call someone or email me or someone else?
gardenergirl88 at yahoo dot com
gg
Posted by Phil on February 12, 2004, at 9:49:16
In reply to Re: - PS Dinah, posted by gardenergirl on February 12, 2004, at 9:35:41
Dinah, If you would feel comfortable emailing me, I'm over at yahoo horizontalbliss@.
Posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 10:03:51
In reply to Re: - PS Dinah, posted by gardenergirl on February 12, 2004, at 9:35:41
Thank you so much, and I'd be delighted to email all of you, but I'm in no real shape to talk much without making an utter *ss of myself.
I'm in midst of one of my infamous meltdowns, on board again no less. It's been a while. :( (Or at least i think and hope it has.)
Don't worry. My therapist is seeing me daily right now, and even if I'm angry with him, I'd do anything for him, including not hurt myself.
I've taken some medication, and may add a bit more and go to bed until time to see my therapist.
Phil, you sound a bit better. I'm so glad. And my upset had nothing to do with you or your posts.
I just think I've been making an *ss out of myself for a while now.
Posted by Phil on February 12, 2004, at 10:30:52
In reply to Re: Phil, Slinky, and » gardenergirl, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 10:03:51
Thanks for checking in Dinah. I'm crashing too. I'm exhausted.
Posted by justyourlaugh on February 12, 2004, at 11:23:04
In reply to Re: Phil, Slinky, and » gardenergirl, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 10:03:51
d,
i have made many a**ish mistakes on these boards over the years...but it does not make me an a**.
i think we are all nonjudgemental friends here and accept the good and the bad elements in people.
but i read all the post and can not see you at fault?
the mind plays many tricks..keep that in mind and give yourself a break...
please dont think you have burned any bridges..
there is no moat around the babble community..
s
Posted by Jai Narayan on February 12, 2004, at 16:50:49
In reply to -, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 8:06:04
> it's all my fault.
You know Dinah, I have no idea why you are so hard on yourself? Is there something you feel you have done? I searched and cannot find one even tiny, miniature, miniscule, entsy- bentsy little thing you have done. Have I missed something?
You know we do love you....and I think that's worth something. Isn't it?
Posted by gabbix2 on February 12, 2004, at 17:00:35
In reply to dinah..., posted by justyourlaugh on February 12, 2004, at 11:23:04
(((Dinah)))
Posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 17:11:23
In reply to Re: dinah..., posted by gabbix2 on February 12, 2004, at 17:00:35
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040211/msgs/312543.html
Something of an explanation. :(
Posted by shar on February 12, 2004, at 19:40:36
In reply to Re: Phil, Slinky, and » Dinah, posted by Phil on February 12, 2004, at 10:30:52
Yikes! I'm strongly hoping my bluntness or lack of grace has not offended you. I always see you as so strong and alive and energetic and bright that I just don't self-monitor much when I write to you, and I've been told before that nobody would mind if my self-monitoring was turned up quite a bit!
Very sorry if I've done anything that hurt you or upset you; I want you to feel good!
Shar
Posted by noa on February 12, 2004, at 20:30:22
In reply to -, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2004, at 8:06:04
Posted by Dinah on February 13, 2004, at 20:07:45
In reply to Dinah, posted by shar on February 12, 2004, at 19:40:36
Oh, no, Shar. I didn't take offense. I was a bit afraid I had given it though.
I don't suppose I ever think of myself as energetic (grin), but I was hoping I had grown stronger. Ah well, at least they're coming farther apart. further?
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