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Posted by rjlockhart37 on January 20, 2013, at 23:57:20
so finally i can post what im thinking and not drive myself crazy because i can't get it out of my mind....
like i said before in a post...its hard to choose love over hate....paticually with my brother they used make fun of me, not invite me to events.....i mean you can see where all this hate surfaced...and then when i confrount them....or give any implication of hatred...i get labeled evil....im not evil....its cause and effect situation....but i can't just sit here and mop and pity everything...move on, make my last descions of what i want to do with my life without them there....and paticulary feeling the hate makes me feel strong....love makes me feel moppy, sentinmental, vunerable, i can't do it....i've gotta repress this stupid sentimental stuff....
just tell me one thing.....what has love have a good side in this situation...and don't me forgiveness is the awnser...every where i go, i hear that and i wanna throw up in my mouth everytime i hear it....disgusts me
anything?
r
Posted by ChicagoKat on January 21, 2013, at 9:11:40
In reply to unfinished buisness, posted by rjlockhart37 on January 20, 2013, at 23:57:20
You personally feeling love, it makes no difference what or whom for, is good for your mind. It causes the release of positive endorphins, and in general, gives you a more positive outlook on life.
Forget about the past. Just throw it in the waste bin. Focus on the here and now. Try to let love into your life, as I said, for anything, even for Babble if it strikes your fancy, and if you don't happen to be religious.Yes, hate can make you feel stronger in the moment, but it is also a very destructive feeling, for both the person/thing you are hating and for you. In the end, love is the stronger emotion because it works quietly and subtly, but it does not destroy, it only builds upon itself and becomes stronger and stronger.
Kat
Posted by gadchik on January 21, 2013, at 9:24:24
In reply to Re: unfinished buisness » rjlockhart37, posted by ChicagoKat on January 21, 2013, at 9:11:40
Posted by Phillipa on January 21, 2013, at 9:24:39
In reply to Re: unfinished buisness » rjlockhart37, posted by ChicagoKat on January 21, 2013, at 9:11:40
You're right I wish it worked like that here. Phillipa
Posted by rjlockhart37 on January 21, 2013, at 18:03:13
In reply to Re: unfinished buisness » rjlockhart37, posted by ChicagoKat on January 21, 2013, at 9:11:40
yea....thanks kat....i read somewhere hate can lead to poisening the soul...if you've seen true hateful people....their eyes usally give it away...its cold looking and glassy....no warmth to it....and usally they have no empathy or sympathy at all....vary toxic.
happiness just seems kinda superficial to me...people who live in lala land and think everything is lolipops and roses....that's not me....i would much rather stick to being pessimist...it makes actually feel better lol....lala happy people...its like they only see reality as a lolipop playground....mm mm thats not me....
thanks for the post...:)
r
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