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Posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 16:48:28
For the affect I project, the sadness in my eyes and face, my avoidance and what has become rudeness, my total disregard for the problems of others (seem so insignificant compared to mine)...i feel like i should wear a disclaimer tag. this is not who i am. it's what i have unfortunately become to due this "illness"....i feel so bad for those who have to put up with me. ever feel like you should have a disclaimer tag or some way to excuse your behavior in advance?
note: i live in the lap of luxury. wealthy parents, personal trainer, great food prepared, golf whenever i want, etc....pretty pathetic....so many people with real problems......yet soooooo very sick..
Posted by Phillipa on September 3, 2011, at 17:21:44
In reply to I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 16:48:28
Money doesn't prevent Depression and other mental illnesses. Helps with finding rights docs. I'm sorry you are going through this. Phillipa
Posted by sigismund on September 3, 2011, at 18:37:11
In reply to I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 16:48:28
I remember someone saying of us kids 'There's nothing wrong with those kids that being poor wouldn't fix'.
Not too poor, of course.
Posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 19:33:29
In reply to Re: I should wear a disclaimer tag... » clubfitter, posted by sigismund on September 3, 2011, at 18:37:11
maybe if i was destitute, i would be more resilient and tougher. i have always had the fall back of my parents...as long as i have them ill be okay right...one day i realized they are not going to be around forever.... maybe without them it would make me get better....probably not though...i blame them for letting me abuse/take advantage of them like that..i went catatonic for 2 1/2 years...sleeping 16 hours, watching tv for 8....left the house a handful of times....went weeks without showering, months without shaving....left job to get treatment....never went back....
i have since lost over a hundred pounds (gained 80) go back on meds, exercise everyday, eat very healthy...and feel worse than i did when catatonic.....scary.
Posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 19:36:54
In reply to Re: I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 19:33:29
btw, i am totally ashamed by my situation...feel guilty to be so 'blessed' financially and otherwise, while others are not so lucky....i really try not to abuse my privileges...the golf around here is very cheap, i play by myself, and do it to get out of the house, get exercise and sunshine....anyway,.
Posted by sigismund on September 3, 2011, at 21:24:19
In reply to Re: I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 19:33:29
>i have since lost over a hundred pounds (gained 80) go back on meds, exercise everyday, eat very healthy...and feel worse than i did when catatonic.....scary.
It *is* scary.
Posted by creepy on September 4, 2011, at 18:45:32
In reply to I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by clubfitter on September 3, 2011, at 16:48:28
That totally sounds like me lately. I avoid others so I dont get injured. Have difficulty even greeting people walking past me. People interpret this as rudeness, but its not, its some sort of fear or anxiety at work.
Zoloft is like taking a pain killer (for me anyway). You dont feel the pain but you know its there.
Many of my depressive symptoms remain. But it hasnt launched me into a mixed state like everything else Ive tried. =(
Posted by Sailboat77 on September 5, 2011, at 3:10:03
In reply to Re: I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by creepy on September 4, 2011, at 18:45:32
I'm one who can empathize. I myself come from a wealthy family where I have all my financial needs met. I look at my new car, library of books, and a generous bank account for which I personally did nothing to deserve and feel guilty. I get sad when I think of how many people would truly take advantage of my situation and doing something great with it.
But instead, this world has blessed me with it and I sometimes feel like I'm a waste. I have struggle with depression's ability to destroy motivation and desire to do good. I just wish I had the motivation and happiness to make use of what I've been so luckily given.
I recently graduated from college last year and have only worked sparingly. My new medical regimen seems promising at times, though I still struggle.
Remember that depression affects even the wealthy and money is no instant cure.... I know that now. Try thinking of what lies ahead and the possibility of finding a way to get better with the help of a psychiatrist and psychologist: an effective combination of medication and positive life changes.
The both of us still have time to do good things.
Posted by Phillipa on September 5, 2011, at 18:56:16
In reply to Re: I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by Sailboat77 on September 5, 2011, at 3:10:03
Wow if only I'd be able to get a real good doc. Phillipa
Posted by B2chica on September 6, 2011, at 13:52:27
In reply to Re: I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by Sailboat77 on September 5, 2011, at 3:10:03
remember its not the money its how the person handles the money.
i always say there are a$$holes with and without. its not about the money. you should NOT feel guilty for what you have, or if it was given to you or not. its how you act when you do or do not have it. God doesnt care how much money you have, only how you treat others. same class or not.ya and think of how many people DO get your kind of money and do nothing with it. you are thinking way too harsh on yourself. as depression does.
it is an illness.and mental illness is mental illness money or not you can still get crappy docs. look at michael jackson...
i wish you only the best. dont worry what others think of you. focus on you and getting better.
Posted by 10derheart on September 6, 2011, at 15:30:21
In reply to Re: I should wear a disclaimer tag..., posted by B2chica on September 6, 2011, at 13:52:27
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