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Posted by Phil on August 8, 2003, at 6:51:39
Or over posted or whatever. As only Barry can sing it, thank god, Somewhere down the road...
Later
Posted by shar on August 10, 2003, at 22:38:57
In reply to I'm outposted, posted by Phil on August 8, 2003, at 6:51:39
Wow, Phil,
You pooped out quick this time! I hope we won't have to wait so long for you to post again! You were gone for a long time before, and I and many others missed your sardonic, ironic, iconic wit.Take care!!
Shar
Posted by Phil on August 14, 2003, at 15:06:26
In reply to Re: Poop Out, posted by shar on August 10, 2003, at 22:38:57
Hi shar, Sorry I haven't responded, I'm still looking for the iconic icon on my desktop.
Thank you VERY much for posting. I have been through more BS at this job than I ever knew existed; I am grateful for the job but it is screwing me up mentally.
I don't like environments that require one to keep a personal journal on different areas to cover your ass. It's as much as I can do to control my anger.
A little tired today but the cooler weather is nice, ain't it.
Hope you are doing okay and getting what you need med-wise, lifewise and luvwise.
I don't when I'll be able to get that coffee but I know a nice little shop in Vancouver. : )
Posted by judy1 on August 16, 2003, at 16:52:57
In reply to Re: Poop Out » shar, posted by Phil on August 14, 2003, at 15:06:26
Hi Phil,
I'm sorry your job isn't going so well right now, I know how frustrating that can be. I hope you don't decide to stay away too long, don't forget we're here to support you too.
take care, judy
Posted by Phil on August 18, 2003, at 8:21:40
In reply to Re: Poop Out » Phil, posted by judy1 on August 16, 2003, at 16:52:57
judy1, I'll try to stick around if I feel like posting. I read st james post below about his depression slowly getting worse and that's pretty much how I feel. Just hoping the bottom doesn't drop out.
The last few days have been weird; it's like constant memories going through my mind. Not all good or bad memories but lot's of them filtering through. Weird feeling.
Good to hear from you j1, how are you?
Phil
Posted by judy1 on August 19, 2003, at 18:25:38
In reply to Re: Poop Out » judy1, posted by Phil on August 18, 2003, at 8:21:40
I'm sorry to hear you're feeling worse- is this a seasonal type depression? Does therapy help at all, or do you depend on meds? It's strange but when I have a gradual worsening of mood, therapy helps so much more- I try all these tricks the therapist suggests to head things off. Do you know why you're having a lot of memories flooding through? has anything significant happened like losing a relative or friend?
I'm fine, kind of wrapped up in my son who decided he wanted to play football, and has an ignorant coach who thinks 10 year olds can go an hour without water- like toughen them up or something. I'm afraid I'll lose my temper if I talk to him so I asked my husband who is so much more reasonable then I am to talk to him. If this coach/idiot doesn't realize that he's risking the health of a bunch of kids I'll just pull my son out, which will upset him but his health is more important. I realize this is probably insignificant, but I tend to involve myself with my children so I don't think about my own mental state.
Please take care of yourself Phil- judy
Posted by Phil on August 20, 2003, at 12:55:33
In reply to Re: Poop Out » Phil, posted by judy1 on August 19, 2003, at 18:25:38
Yeah, I have an aunt who is terminally ill with cancer. She turned 90 on July 11th, same day I turned 50. We have always been close and this has happened fast so it will be hard on me.
She's incredibly sharp mentally but she's in an 'any day' situation.
I booked an hour w/ my pdoc recently, $175.00: I get back $45.00 from insurance. We had a good talk but she isn't the greatest counselor but I've known her a while and just talking is sometimes all it takes.
I can't afford even periodic therapy and don't want to join a group, church, or circus so I'll deal with it. I'd be doing twice a week therapy now if I could swing it. 5 day a week massages, etc.
I've really been in this state of mind for years, not knowing what to do, apathetic. If I knew what to do, I wouldn't do it. It is worse now because of my aunt and job instability.
It's just a fact that this disease is serious and we all suffer far too much. It's just my time right now.
I hope your husband lays down the law with the drill instructor coach. Your's and the others kids should have water anytime they need it. Sorry the post is so long.You are quite a caring person, judy. I've always liked to see your name here.
Phil
Posted by judy1 on August 20, 2003, at 14:23:28
In reply to Re: Poop Out » judy1, posted by Phil on August 20, 2003, at 12:55:33
I'm so sorry you have the added stress of your Aunt's illness on top of turning 50 (which I hear is especially difficult for men). Is there any way you can tape or film her telling a family story? I have one of my Mom before she passed away and it is a great comfort to me.
$175 is steep, do you have any MSW therapists in your area? They only charge about $50-$60/hour and I swear I have had better ones then any psychologist or psychiatrist that I've seen. maybe something to think about?
I hope you continue to post, I always think venting helps and we all care a great deal about you. BTW, thank you for the concern about my son, my husband did 'give them hell' and my son's pediatrician got involved so despite keeping my son home today the rest of the little guys got to drink water to their hearts content.
Please take good care of yourself, judy
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