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Posted by 10derHeart on December 15, 2009, at 5:42:56
In reply to Re: please be civil » okydoky, posted by 10derHeart on December 15, 2009, at 5:41:36
Posted by 2nd xylophone on December 15, 2009, at 6:52:12
In reply to Phillipa, posted by RocketMan on December 15, 2009, at 2:18:26
Posted by okydoky on December 15, 2009, at 6:58:09
In reply to Re: please be civil » okydoky, posted by 10derHeart on December 15, 2009, at 5:41:36
Posted by Phillipa on December 15, 2009, at 10:36:44
In reply to Re: please be civil » RocketMan » willyeee » Phillipa, posted by Dr. Bob on December 15, 2009, at 3:18:38
Dr. Bob confused so If you're asking me to be civil I apologize. Phillipa
Posted by Dr. Bob on December 15, 2009, at 13:44:30
In reply to Re: Confused, posted by Phillipa on December 15, 2009, at 10:36:44
Posted by willyeee on December 15, 2009, at 17:17:21
In reply to Re: please be civil » RocketMan » willyeee » Phillipa, posted by Dr. Bob on December 15, 2009, at 3:18:38
Oh my god,now im offended and hurt,i post something i felt upset me,i did not lie in anyway,information i gave in confidentialiy was put on the board and i spoke my mind on it,i post advice here every chance i get never with any shred of uncivility,i mind my buisness,i post only to post i know of such as maois rather then ssris due to the fact im partial to them and dont want to give off a negative vibe,im at a loss for words im found to be uncivil,i responded to a thread that was going,as any other thread,if the thread was becomming too much,i dont think de escaltion would be needed,but rather quicker response by adminstation to remove it,since when is it uncivil to see a thread and include your post,if i wass adding "fuel to a fire" then the thread should not have been there in the first place.
Im truly disappointed.
Posted by twinleaf on December 15, 2009, at 21:18:50
In reply to Re: please be civil » RocketMan » willyeee » Phillipa, posted by Dr. Bob on December 15, 2009, at 3:18:38
In addition to the warnings about being civil, I hope a deeper look is being taken at this situation. I have no way of knowing whether the allegations of forwarding personal babble-mails and e-mails are valid or not, but if they are, administrative focus on a solution to that would be important if forum members are going to feel safe using these ways of communicating.
Posted by emilyp on December 15, 2009, at 23:06:12
In reply to Re: In Phillipa's defense, posted by willyeee on December 15, 2009, at 2:18:38
You may be comfortable with others posting information about your mental health. But many others may not be. This comment relates to the broader issue (not just the incidents that are being debated on this thread). Individuals with mental health issues have different views about how public they want to be and those differences should be respected. I don't think you can assume everyone has the same views about 'being public' as you do. In many ways, it is not too different than the issue of whether a gay/lesbian person is out - there are great differences.
Posted by BayLeaf on December 17, 2009, at 6:04:58
In reply to Re: please be civil » RocketMan » willyeee » Phillipa, posted by Dr. Bob on December 15, 2009, at 3:18:38
Bob - aren't bmails supposed to follow all civility rules too?
I thought that was a policy somewhere?
bay
Posted by Dr. Bob on December 17, 2009, at 8:11:25
In reply to Re: please be civil, clarification request » Dr. Bob, posted by BayLeaf on December 17, 2009, at 6:04:58
> Bob - aren't bmails supposed to follow all civility rules too?
Right, I can confirm whether babblemail is genuine and block someone from sending them:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#babblemail
Bob
Posted by BayLeaf on December 17, 2009, at 18:04:29
In reply to Re: clarification request, posted by Dr. Bob on December 17, 2009, at 8:11:25
So if we think a poster is violating the civility rules via bmail, we can email you and you might block them from being able to send bmail to anyone. Got it.
Bay
Posted by Maxime on December 17, 2009, at 21:23:45
In reply to Phillipa, posted by RocketMan on December 15, 2009, at 2:18:26
Phillipa, I also didn't like it when you sent me a babble mail saying that you knew what I looked like. Apparently another member had shared a pic with you. I didn't feel harrassed, just extremely annoyed.
My life is private with the exception of what I post on PB.
Posted by Phillipa on December 17, 2009, at 21:45:04
In reply to Re: Phillipa, posted by Maxime on December 17, 2009, at 21:23:45
Maxie hence why I told you so you would know. And no one has seen it. I've received many babblers pics over the years from numerous posters. Then on Social we've shared pics many times. Do you visit social? I think a few weeks about someone was posting pics of their hair asking for advise. It's common on social. I've also posted my pic there several times. Phillipa
Posted by johnj1 on December 18, 2009, at 14:15:48
In reply to Re: Phillipa, posted by Maxime on December 17, 2009, at 21:23:45
That is spooky. I don't like that these things are happening around here and nothing is being done to address this type of behavior.
Posted by Phillipa on December 18, 2009, at 14:19:44
In reply to Re: Phillipa » Maxime, posted by johnj1 on December 18, 2009, at 14:15:48
I don't like it either. I wonder what happened at the meeting last night anyone go? Phillipa
Posted by johnj1 on December 19, 2009, at 10:29:29
In reply to Re: Phillipa » johnj1, posted by Phillipa on December 18, 2009, at 14:19:44
What? Considering this is about what you did I don't understand what you are trying to say. Are you pretending you didn't do things that people are uncomfortable about?
Phillipa, I would appreciate that you respect the babblemail we traded over a year ago where we agreed not to respond to each others direct postings.
Posted by Maxime on December 19, 2009, at 22:22:11
In reply to Re: Phillipa » johnj1, posted by Phillipa on December 18, 2009, at 14:19:44
You say you don't like it but you are sending babblemails with comments about pictures etc. It's not right. I want my identity at PB to remain at PB. I hate when people know things about me. That's why I would never give my real name out for people to add to Facebook.
Posted by Phillipa on December 19, 2009, at 23:52:48
In reply to Re: Phillipa » Phillipa, posted by Maxime on December 19, 2009, at 22:22:11
Maxie I like facebook as don't discuss meds or personal issues just joking and having fun with family, friends, and neighbors. We all have our pics on there it's fun. Babble is separate. Different. I didn't send your pic to me your friend did and I told you about it is that bad? Would you rather not know? Just asking as I can keep secrets. Phillipa
Posted by polarbear206 on December 20, 2009, at 14:29:44
In reply to Re: Phillipa » Maxime, posted by Phillipa on December 19, 2009, at 23:52:48
I think Phillipa has an obsession and addiction to posting on babble. I just don't understand how someone can post over 100 times in a couple of days, and that's just on the MED board and not including the other boards. Something is very wrong here. She should be talking more with a therapist and getting help for her problems. Call me mean, but that's the way I see it.
Posted by Angela2 on December 20, 2009, at 16:24:58
In reply to Re: Phillipa, posted by polarbear206 on December 20, 2009, at 14:29:44
Although I see the complete validity in the other posters' concerns and upset about some things that went on between them and Phillipa, I think what you said was uncalled for polarbear. So what if she posts 100 times a day? This isn't a free for all.
Posted by floatingbridge on December 21, 2009, at 2:43:15
In reply to Re: Phillipa » polarbear206, posted by Angela2 on December 20, 2009, at 16:24:58
> This isn't a free for all.
I agree--this isn't a time or place for general expression of antipathy for Phillipa. Everyone has personal likes and dislikes, favorite friends, etc.
Stick to the issue at hand. Personal privacy and the violation of trust. As I recall Polarbear, you've raised this opinion before in another unrelated post sometime ago. My advice--let your subjective judgment go--it's irrelevant to the discussion.
two cents
fb
Posted by floatingbridge on December 21, 2009, at 6:27:30
In reply to free for all » Angela2, posted by floatingbridge on December 21, 2009, at 2:43:15
The most uncomfortable breech of trust for me was receiving sexually suggestive babblemail mail from a community member whom I refrain from naming.
I count Phillipa a friend, as I do many others here. I, too recived an email w/ third party info about which I felt uncomfortable. I should have told her at the time. However, during the process of inform sharing in this thread, remember that there is a real person involved, one who
is not the only one to break protocol. Be kind.fb
Posted by johnj1 on December 21, 2009, at 12:38:51
In reply to Re: Phillipa, posted by polarbear206 on December 20, 2009, at 14:29:44
I agree with you. This place can exacerbate an illness if it is let go and that is exactly what is happening and then it spills over into private babblemail and unacceptable behavior. That behavior and it being allowed has driven many people away. Babble isn't what it used to be because some people have taken over and made it their personal board without regard for others.
Posted by Phillipa on December 21, 2009, at 13:06:07
In reply to furthermore, posted by floatingbridge on December 21, 2009, at 6:27:30
Last time I will remark on this thread but for two years I have a babblemail where a poster sent the police to my old address in a different part of the state? Person stated the info was given to her by a deputy. This is something I could have reported but didn't. And no I won't sent or post copies. Who knows what troubles the person might have been going through at the time? Phillipa
Posted by polarbear206 on December 21, 2009, at 15:16:24
In reply to Re: Phillipa » polarbear206, posted by johnj1 on December 21, 2009, at 12:38:51
> I agree with you. This place can exacerbate an illness if it is let go and that is exactly what is happening and then it spills over into private babblemail and unacceptable behavior. That behavior and it being allowed has driven many people away. Babble isn't what it used to be because some people have taken over and made it their personal board without regard for others.
This is exactly what I was thinking of John. Thanks.
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